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writes:Okay, this is the most teenager girl-ish question ever, but here goes:There's this guy I really really like. He's the funniest person I know and I love talking to him. Whenever I'm with him, I'm happy...he's sort of like the bright spot of my day. I feel like he might like me too, but...The problem: My friend is going out with him. But, she's Indian and has pretty strict, traditionalist parents, so the relationship is sort of secret. I hate it when she's around when I'm talking to her boyfriend because he suddenly gets serious. Most of the time they spend together is spent worrying about what all her parents have found out. It is so frustrating to watch them obsess over this every day.She is changing schools next year, and her boyfriend is staying at the same school I'm at.So, I have to ask: Would it be wrong for me to start sort of pursuing this guy next year? Their relationship just seems so stressful and...useless. And I really like this guy. Would I be a bad person for this? Reply to this Question
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 um..
i mean at the end of the day they are in relationship together.
and whether or not they have problems they seem to be happy together.
and still be together.
just see how it goes i mean if they both decide to end it then sure.
but for now you should respect that she is with him for the time being.
but like you said she's off to another school so you never know maybe he won't want to carry on like that.
Just keep at bay for now :)
Hope this helps.
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reader, WantAnswers +, writes (4 June 2009):
 hey i think you shuldnt because they both really love each other.it would be not nice to mess up thier relation and beside cheating on your friend ........its just not nice hope this helps :)
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