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*romarcus
writes:I've been my girlfriend for the past 4 months now and at the moment it seems like she's letting me down 24/7. she's my first love, I love her to bits and i really want things to change but the thing is, i see her about 2-3 hours a week even though she lives about 100m away which to me it doesn't seem enough and every time i ask to see her, she says yes, but at the last minute she cancels and says 'can we leave it' or 'im busy' but i know she has nothing better to do. Shes 18 and still in school and im 19 and work as a carpenter i pretty much wake up at 6am and get home at 6pm, so my days are long and if it was up to me i would happily spend the rest of my evenings with her. Its kinda heart breaking when she has to make up excuses not too see me and it seems like im the one putting in all the effort. In the 4 months we've been together i've spent one whole day with her and i have said to her about how much time we spend together and she agrees and wants things to change but that was 3 weeks ago and i still see no change, someone once told me im the prize to be pursued but she seems to be walking all over me. can someone please enlighten me on what to do thxs x Reply to this Question
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reader, promarcus +, writes (11 June 2009):
promarcus is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncheers everyone especially you end585 youve been a good help your a man of wisdom cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): Ask her why she cancels at the last minute; there may be a good reason. Alternatively, it may be that she is not as keen on you as you are on her, but you need to find out which so you can decide what to do.
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reader, End585  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 You would need to clear things out one more time with her. It's always a tough subject to bring forth. Unless she would really bring forth a good reason (IE: School test), you would need to tell her how you really feel about this situation again.
You can't stay in a relationship that's not providing you love and the presence of the other one. You don't need to suffer for someone who don't feel like spending time with you.
I seem she just want to have the title and no responsibility.
Love is great but when you love, you are willing to make sacrifice to be with the other one, you don't seem to always have a last minute requirement; i doubt these last minute requirement are always really that important.
Just have a good talk about that and if you don't feel understood, well... A man gotta do what a man gotta do.
Don't let that go on for too long, it'll only be tougher.
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reader, shaniquas3  +, writes (5 June 2009):
i think you should break up with her and move on.If she antd to be with you and loved you as much as youl oved her she would make the effort to come and see you and not make sob exuses.
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