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writes:I have just started seeing this guy for just about a month, we weren't official and the other week I kissed a guy. didn't enjoy it as thinking shouldn't do this as seeing other guy. Had discussion with the person I'm seeing and we said we are now exclusive. He mentioned he wouldn't do anything with anyone even if just seeing someone. I thinm he classed as exclusive before but obv not as i asked if could be. I'm feeling really bad and based on his comments not sure he would take it very well if I told him and do really like him and so mad I did this as not like me. should I worry as much as I am, forget it or tell him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Gem86 +, writes (18 June 2009):
 Nah I wouldn't tell him! I've been in similar situations, just not worth the hassle, you've done nothing wrong so don't beat yourself up over it :) Good luck x
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reader, klou +, writes (18 June 2009):
dont beat yourself up about it. No need to say anything, you're a couple now ... the faithfulness begins.....x
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (18 June 2009):
 No, I wouldn't tell him, unless it was someone he knows, who might actually tell him. Some things are best left unsaid.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (18 June 2009):
 Technically, when it's not "official" you're still on "the market". It might still be best to let him know, if you can't live with the guilt, hoping that he won't react badly to it.
I don't see "kissing" when it's not official to be cheating and I know that I wouldn't feel guilty about it but some people do.
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reader, laura585  +, writes (18 June 2009):
Well if you two didnt officially decide to be official until after that kiss then you dont technically HAVE to tell him. BUT if it bothers you so much you do need to tell him, so you can get it off your chest. You wouldnt want that guilt to build off. There is that chance he'lll get mad about but there is also a chance that he will shake it off.
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