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writes:I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21. I've been with him 10 month, and he is completely besotted with me. I love him too. He's every thing i wanted in a guy. He's dark, tall, gorgeous, good personality, fun to be with, sexy etc. I know i love him, but is it possible to love him but not be in love. I mean i want to hug him and kiss him and make love with him most of the time, but i feel like i haven't fallen head over heels for him, is this a bad thing? The thing is, he's my first serious relationship, so really i don't know what 'falling head over heels' feels like. But i just think i'm not 100% complete, and i really don't know why! What is wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): Maybe hes just not the one for you. It doesnt mean hes a bad person or that you dont love him, it just means he might not be exactly what you need in a man. Though he has finer qualitys, that doesnt make him right for you and theres nothing wrong with that. If thats what your gut is telling you, its right. If he was the one, sparks would be flying out of control, and if there not... take it as a lesson learned for your next relationship. Good Luck!
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