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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I need some help understanding what a lad I know is thinking about our friendship. We met by chance through a mistake on a networking sight and are both very similar with lots in common and both hurt in past relationships so it seemed fate had interveened. We met several times and had a great time, taking things easy but now he wants to be just friends for now even though he admits we are good together. He tends to cut conversations short or ignore contact i've made with him, we barely talk at all now and I feel I've lost a good friendship and possibility of a future relationship. My questions is should I hang around waiting for the small amount of contact we have in hope something happens or cut my losses and move on, ignoring any contact to show I'm not going to sit waiting on him all the time or till he decides what he wants.Please help, I've had a lot of disappointment in past relationships I don't think I can take much more!
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (18 June 2009):
 Don't hang around waiting on anybody. He is showing you by his actions that he is not interested in you and is letting you down politely. Cut your losses and move on to some of those other men at the networking meetings. (Aren't they fun? LOL)Good luck.
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