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I don't want to be compared to the other girl!

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Question - (8 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

me and my boyfriend have been together for 16 months im 16 and so's he and we have really good sex he always fingers me and i love it but i found out another girl gave him a blow job while he's with me and i forgave and its made me want to do it now but i'm too scared to tell him this and i get scared incase he compares me to her and what she did also i don't know what to do to get into that situation please helpp xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009):

no reason to bash her for that*

If you honestly think he has enough respect for you to not cheat again I would stay with him...though that wasn't the question.

He won't compare you to the other girl and if he does, he actually is an asshole and only with you for the sex so it really wouldn't matter.

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A female reader, Jess1ca_1988 United States +, writes (8 July 2009):

well i have been in a similar situation with my husband. You will just have to tell him your fears and if he really wants to make it work with you, he will have to try to understand where u r coming from as far as not wanting to be compared to other girls

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