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writes:Today I went to my local gym and I was excited about starting, then I told my boyfriend and he said I couldn't go in case I cheat with the instructor :( I need to go because my confidence is low as hell and i know that'd help so much, I’ve told my boyfriend this and he says I'm "not allowed to go" :( basically, it’s the gym or him. what should I do, go to the gym or be with my boyfriend? :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): go to the gym. he won't leave you over it. he has lower confidence than you if he could be that paranoid. you should honestly talk to him about his problem with jealousy, insecurity, and lack of trust.
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (8 July 2009):
 Go to the gym!
Your boyfriend is an immature, insecure control freak.
You can't go to the gym in case you cheat with the gym instructor. What next? You can't have driving lessons in case you cheat with the driving instructor? What about work, and your boss? You might cheat there too? I wouldn't go to the toilet, you might cheat with another woman!
If you let him do this, where will it end?
Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2009): That is not a normal healthy relationship! He should NOT be controlling you like this out of jealousy. It is your life and your body and he has NO right to be telling you what to do with it.
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