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writes: My boyfriend is 14 years younger, I'm 47, maybe playing a game with me...A week ago he asked me to marry him, what was really making me very happy, as he is a dream come true to me, but when he saw I changed my status on facebook, he got mad ,that everybody knows about it ..Is it possible ,he just wants to use me ,as he is from an other country, and just wants to have a fake?What should I think? Why is it so bad to tell about the good news? What do you think
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): Darling is his FINANCIAL status is good the chances of him being honest about your love are failry GoodBut is his financial status is average or below the averagethen i think the chances of him frauding you is very very high.....just a point of view from a 33years old midlle eastren man !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): sound very very fishy doesnt it? not wanting it made public is deffinately a red flag. sounds like a way into the country is his main concern to me. bet his wife back home is thrilled.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): smelling a rat here. heard lots of stories of immigrants using the women just to be legal while they have their real families in their own country. please be careful. check his history , his family ties. see if he has kids and another family as well. DO YOUR HOMEWORK!
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (5 August 2009):
 Strange thing to be upset about you'd think he would want to scream it from the roof tops. He is up to something and wants to do it without anyone knowing. Is it an internet relationship, is he here as a visitor, is he looking for a green card Need more information.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): I don't know why he's mad at you if he asked you to marry him. I can think of 2 things, he's using you because he's from another country and he's embarrassed that he will marry someone much older than him. I would ask him why he's mad at you. If he's using you to stay in this country, I wouldn't want to marry him, say "NO" and find someone else or if he thinks you're too old tell him "SEE YA".
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