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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:okay so my problem is that me and my bf have been dating for the past 4 months and we have yet to see eachother outside school except at like football games and non private stuff. We can't really form a good connection without some alone time you know? My parents will not let me go out with him. Infact my dad doesn't even know Im dating him cause my mom won't let me tell him. IDK wat to do. I really just wanna lay out all on the table but to my dad Im stil his little girl. Even though. Im 16 already. Help please. Oh and for the whole goup thing it's impossible cause none of my friends have bf's and they hate going out as third wheels so thas. out of the question. Advice please. =]. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009): Ok I know this is probably the worst advice I have ever given and I'll probably be getting bad feedback but hey, I gotta be honest; you could just lie. I know its morally incorrect but I strongly believe that both you and your boyfriend deserve some alone time considering you are in relationship. Your parents might not like the fact that you're dating him but you obviously like him regardless otherwise you wouldn't have asked this question. Just tell them you're going out with you're friends( I recommend that actually u go somewhere with your friends and maybe even get them to pick you up to make the lie more believable) and then go out with your boy. Don't tell your dad because you still gotta respect your mom's decisions( I know its ironic since I'm encouraging a lie here) and she may have a really good reason. AND do lie to her too often else you will lose credibility. DO NOT USE THIS ADVICE UNLESS EVERYTHING ELSE FAILS. DON'T USE IT AT ALL INFACT.
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