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writes:This question is for the single women of the dearcupid community, any age also k. K, so ladies, let me ask this to you, being single is hard sumtimes I know, but what goes on in your mind when your wishing you had someone to hold you in the early morning on cold nights? How does it make you feel when valentines day comes around and your still without that special someone? I know personally what it feels like but I want perspective here, from women who are single, but who also know what it is to want sumone. Share some emotions you feel about those crazy wanton nights when you just want to be held or those day when you hate every other couple you see because you don't have someone, I know I've been there too. Speak on it. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): There are days I'm happy just to be single, but there are other days where I feel the need just sink into someone's hug. I cry on occasion because I feel alone (in that aspect of life), one of my greatest fears is dying alone, not getting married, not having children. Valentines Day isn;t really a problem for me. All I ever want is someone to hug, someone to listen and to talk with, and someone to care about me. But I'll be patient and find someone that I actually want to be with.
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (17 August 2009):
Why is this question coming up in August?? - Its funny, throughout my life, I have rarely dated anyone on or around Valentines day! - So I often have had you're feelings of being lonesome!! - However, once Valentine's day has been and gone you tend to thank your lucky stars that you're not stuck in some dead end relationship or just dating someone for the sake of it!Your turn will come - whether it be this year, next year or in the next 10 years!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): I do have days when I see other couples looking so in love and I wish I had that now. Someone to tell me I look beautiful even when I look crap, someone who doesn't care what his friends think, and whom I can snuggle up with and feel completely content and happy (amongst other things). I think having these thoughts and feelings are normal, because we all want to love and to be loved, but dwelling on it too much isn't healthy. When I'm feeling a bit down about it I do something that I enjoy, or phone up a friend and have a good laugh or chat. I dread it when Valentine's day comes around and I'm single, but instead of sitting indoors and feeling sorry for myself I go out with my other single friends and have a good time, so it keeps the fact that I'm alone (to an extent) off my mind.
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reader, L*  +, writes (17 August 2009):
I get days like that but then I realise that it's the price I have to pay for being very very choosy about which guys to date!!
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