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male
age
41-50,
*usaiinuchan
writes:I've been seeing this girl for almost 2 years. We eventually fell in love and gotten personal but only in private because she still has a boyfriend. I wanna know if she truly loves me because she can't seem to leave her boyfriend in fear that I may leave her because I left a girl before. She's been with her boyfriend for 7 years and sometimes feel like he won't leave her coz she's got low self esteem. At times I wanna leave her coz I don't feel like she wants to committ to me but other times I feel like it's a test to see if I can stick by her through difficult times. I don't know what to do. Should I just keep hanging on? Should I leave her? She did tell me that I don't have to go through this and many times has pushed me away but I told her that I really love her and won't leave her side. What should I do??
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reader, blazee  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 let her know how you feel, but dont push her into making a decision.
let her realise how scared she is of losing you, and she should make the decision to leave her boyfriend, or regret losing you. you shouldnt be waiting for her for this long.
she knows its going to be hard and shesj ust putting off making a decision, and she will do untill you let her now you cant take waiting. Then you will see how much she wants to be with you
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