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He went off at me for trying to help him... are apologies needed?

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Question - (7 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My bestfriend and i got in an argument last night....

He was mad because he couldnt take a girl to the dance. So I told him he should make it up to her, he asked how...and i wasnt sure what to say but i did my best to help. I suggested he ask the cupids here=) Then he got mad at me, so it seemed, he said this "Why dont you let me figure s*** out on my own!" and that was after i told him he should ask you cupids (both have accounts on here). Soon i replied "even though it hurts me knowing you love some one, i'll be there to help and support you" (we love each other) After that i dont really remember, its in my messages though. I will explain more if youd like, i'll also send the conversation. Does anyone have to be apologizing? He went off on me for trying to help him.....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

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I said i was sorry about last night. he replied that it was his fault....but i just be the friend thats there for him y'know?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

I dont think you need to apologize, but talk to him and make it clear to him you were only trying to help (he might have thought you were trying to tell him what to do) and that you didnt mean to upset him in any way but that you dont see what you've done wrong (and from what you said i dont think you have)

I'm sure he didnt mean to go off at you like that and was just upset about not being able to take this girl to that dance.

as for him making it up to her, how about he invites her to the cinema or maybe lunch...

I hope this helps and that it works out for all of you.

good luck xx

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