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41-50,
*exie88
writes:I’m so confused about this right now so please help!A friend of mine was going to set me up with a friend of hers and asked me to check his profile out on her Facebook before she mentioned me to him. I had a look and wasn’t too interested and told her so. BUT…while looking for his profile I stumbled upon another guy on her friends list who I think is absolutely gorgeous. He’s about my age and we have many similar interests. It looks like he’s single as well. Now, I think I am totally crazy but I haven’t been able to stop thinking of this guy – and to think I’ve only seen a few pics of him!I told my friend that I think he’s hot but the thing is she doesn’t work with him anymore and I don’t think they’re ‘friends’ as such – more like acquaintances. They don’t really keep in contact now.One minute I think I am crazy and have finally lost it but then next minute I think why not – what do I have to lose, life’s too short to keep wondering what if. I’d like to get to know him and who knows maybe I won’t even like him, but I’d want to give it a go.So…how should I approach this whole thing? I can’t have her set up a meet with him, her, me and other people because as I say they’re not ‘friends’ as such so that would be strange, and I doubt he’d agree to meet up with her out of the blue. Do I tell her to tell him that a friend of hers thinks he’s hot and if he’s curious he’ll ask further?I’ve never been in this situation and I just want to forget this because it’s so crazy but I can’t help think about it. What’s the best approach to get to this guy? Set up a meet somehow and see how that goes or tell him straight out and if he’s interested he’d want to meet anyway. I know I’m going to come across as a lunatic but hey it could be worse :) L
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reader, Asked Angel  +, writes (2 December 2008):
 I would be honest straight down the line. Like you say life is to short.
Tell him your intreseted and if he is to he'll let you no and who know's what might happen.
If not then what does it matter?
Go for it
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