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18-21,
*shley245
writes:Ok, well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now, he has a myspace and I don't, I can't stand the website. He has his myspace set to private and I cannot see it, I am a jealous person and I can't stand it. I don't know what goes on. I trust him with everything I have, I just don't trust the other people, he makes music so it is a music myspace but it still bugs the life out of me. I have talked to him about it but it's still the same answers good answers, but it go's no where. What should I do?I also feel like other girls are better then me, prettier than me and I know I'm beautiful, but it seems girls are better than me. How can I overcome this? What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): either that or make a fake one and add him...that way you'll see it lol
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (1 December 2008):
 Hi,
You need to trust him your letting him see how insecure you are by constantly asking to see his site and we are all entitled to some privacy in a relationship, however if it is causing you so much grief then you will need to speak to him about it be calm and assertive and tell him you know he deserves his privacy but maybe now and then you could just see what his Myspace is like out of curiosity say!
Just to see what music he is writing etc; try and make it more an interest than accusing thing you may well find that is all that is on it!!
As for the girls been prettier than you well in all walks of life there will always be prettier girls than ourselves who cares? That is life you need to stop putting yourself down you will be a lovely person in your own right beauty is'nt everything most men love a women for her brain not how she looks a brain will sustain you through life sometimes looks don't!!
So do not get hung up on that i am sure your a pretty girl.
Try and relax a bit more and when he shows you his Myspace
Maybe then you can chill out more good luck.
Ginalolabridga
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reader, maddierose  +, writes (1 December 2008):
 1) It sounds like your self esteem is low, everybody feels like they are in competition but your boyfriend wouldn't be with you if he thougght other girls were better..
2) Music myspaces aren't set to private, it's not exactly great for advertising, he probably has 2. Why don't you make yourself a myspace, but never use it. That way you can add only him and see what goes on but not actually be sucked into the whole 'myspace' thing.
Good luck x
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