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writes:I'm currently extremely confused at this situation:Me and this girl i really like went on a date to the movies and it went extremely well. We were totally comfortable around eachother and she kept messing with her hair and mine, kept touching my hands, lying on me with her head on my shoulder and we were generally having a great time and chatting because the film was rubbish!So then after the film i wait with her until her lift is there. She then gives me the most amazing hug ever as if she didn't want to let go and then kissed me on the cheek.We texted eachother and both said we had a great time. But here's the problem:When i text her to arrange another date she said that she's busy a lot at the moment and stressed because of her exam results and stuff and she also has multiple jobs. I initially thought that this was just a way to gentley break it off with me so i said that. Then she replied and said that it isn't like that and that i already know that (did i?!). So i assume she genuinely likes me.So what should i do now? Talk to her when her exam results have been through and stuff? Is it the stress making her like this? She said she doesn't want to see me get hurt because of her busyness. We had to cancel the date for 1 day which didn't bother me at all..so she's just being dramatic.
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reader, KingofLeon +, writes (12 August 2008):
KingofLeon is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnother thing i would like to mention is that all the flirting and touching was started by her as i treated the whole thing as just a time to get to know her better. It's all left me feeling confused to be honest.We've still been texting each other and stuff, me probably a bit too much :( but i've stopped that now and i'm going to just wait until her exam results are through and maybe pop into her work to see her later in the week when i am shopping for a present for my mother's birthday as she said she was gutted i didnt pop in for a chat last time i was in the town. I'll probably ring her to find out if she did ok in her exams even if she doesn't text me by then. If you all think this would be wise.Thanks for the help so far :)
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 don't push her for another date if she is super busy, just be there as a good friend to support her through all the stress she is having to deal with lately. don't back off, keep in touch for sure. maybe ask when she has breaks at work to bring her a cup of coffee or give her a phone call, things like that? good luckkk.
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (12 August 2008):
 I would leave her alone for a while and if she texts you then text back but only if SHE TEXTS YOU FIRST!
i can understand why it would be a problem at the moment if you were togetehr as i guess you wouldn't see much of each other and when you did she may be stressed and snapping which could ruin the relationship (and we don't want that do we)
It does seem that she likes you but doesn't have the time at the moment
If you like her that much then wait for her which im sure she'd appreciate
hope i've helped
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