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writes:I came here because of an article that I saw and found it intereasting, I dont look for romance and all because I dont believe it is in the cards for me, Do you think a person can be destroyed for life, or that some of us are just not meant to have a relationship and any attempt to do so will only lead to rejection?I am 40 and I cant say I ever had a true love, I thought I was in love of course many times, but looking back cant remember anything I would ever want back after the lies and final betrayal. Reply to this Question
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (12 August 2008):
 i believe everyone was meant for love, but some people do just fine without it. some just need and search for it more than others, and that's fine. to each their own.
my ex boyfriend and i broke up because he said he just has this gut feeling he was meant to be alone in life. to me, it sounds kind of loony especially because his gut feeling broke my heart and because i believe everyone was meant for love, but in all honesty i can understand it.
just like some women and men you see on streets with children were quite obviously not meant to be mothers and fathers, maybe all men and women also aren't meant to have life partners.
i don't think that any attempt will lead to rejection, heck no! there will always be someone out there who would love to be with you! there are billions of people out there, after all.
i just think it is a personal decision whether or not someone actively reaches out and tries to find that other person!
if i make sense!
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