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*avigirl
writes:ive been seeing a man for nearly 2 years at the start he said he didnt want anything serious but things had got better over time we have never argued i enjoy being with him we dont live together i see him everyday we walk our dogs together and meet up properly twice a week i also see him as a my best friend the problem i have is he is very secretive i know he goes on his lap top a lot and no one is allowed on there he wont really talk about his past and he dosent trust anybody even though we get on it is very one sided i have put up with it untill last week when i told him i loved him i asked if he loved me and he said no he was fond of me he does buy things for me and has showed he cares but i feel very sad about this and am not sure what to do any advice welcome
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reader, ags +, writes (12 August 2008):
I would say that after two years he is very very fond of you to want to see you daily, could possibly love you but not realise it. Not talking about the past suggests hurt, does he really have to?, your own instincts probably tell you if he is a decent person. Good luck x
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 i agree with smiles. take it in stride and don't try to break down his secretive side. accept him for who he is and what he said in response to your i love you and keep him as a good friend while you find someone new!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): Well there is not much you can do to change his feelings. You should be happy that at least he was honest with you and did not try to string you along with false hope. I suggest remain friends BUT start looking for a guy that you can have a relationship with. SOmebody that will love you and share the joy of being in a loving relationship.
Best wishes and keep SMILING.
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