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36-40,
*ena1
writes:i need help, my relashionship is getting damage ,it has been 2years of engagement, and from 1st i told my fiance not to have sex till marriage, and he apreciate my idea. but now he reached his limits. And now his health geting damaged and he is asking me to do it, but i don"t know what to do!!! our problem is that we can"t get married in my contry because he should change religion, and he doen"t want to do that. Either me i don"t want him to do somthing he doesn"t like!!am i being selfish?what should i do? advice me pleaze.
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reader, lena1 +, writes (17 August 2008):
lena1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you baby duck for ur advices
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reader, lena1 +, writes (13 August 2008):
lena1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhen i say i can"t live without him it means the day can"t go well just if i see him!!!he wenta week for vacation and ohh mygod it was a mesirable week i could not wait the day he comes back home so i can talk with him even he was calling me every day!!!
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reader, lena1 +, writes (12 August 2008):
lena1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know that no one change religion just if he wantd too!!but if we want toget married here (in my contry)oe of us should change!!!
now he always try to make me change my religion by showing me bad things about (he says i should be open)!!
i love him so much but i see that defernt of religion will always be essu between us!!!!!
i can"t live without him what should i do?
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reader, lena1 +, writes (12 August 2008):
lena1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for replying!!!
our problem is that we can't get married in my contry till he change religion but he doesn"t want to do that,and i can"t get married out of contry because we are waiting visa because we have some problem with it,and he says he waited long enough to not have sex and now his health geting damage!!!!
i know having sex after this years will not make his health come back but at least it will not make it worse!!
i don"t know what can i do ,i love him so much an di can't live with out him ,also i know i sound selfish but i want to stay virgin till marriage it is dream of any girl!!
i don"t really know what to do !!i think all doors are closed in my face!!
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reader, RitzaD. +, writes (12 August 2008):
 I don't understand what seems to be the problem here. Is it the sex, marriage, or religion?
If u have sex with him will it cure his health condition? Doubt it.
If he changes his religion to marry u will this prove his love to u?
U both are at the wrong place at the wrong time.
He doesn't want to change his religion, and what limits has he reached? This is childish. My only advice is to take a long break. Figure out what u both want.
Seems like u guys are desperate to get married to have sex.
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