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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well, I liked this girl... and still do and I knew she liked me. But, I don't know if she still likes me and we don't talk. The thing is that I am about to graduate and I didn't want to have to make her wait because I am going into rhe military. So, like an idiot, I stop talking to her and we are down to just glances across the room and "Hi, How are you"'s. According to what I know about body language there is a chance, but I am still an amateur at behavioral science so I don't really trust it. I would ask her...But unfortunately I am a bit shy and its been like a month or two since we talked and it seems kind of awkward.
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reader, shabby-chic  +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Hi,It seems you are running out of time to say whats on your mind, so I suggest you use that as an incentive to get it out there. Time waits for no one ,and before you know it the moment will pass you by. Better for you to find out than spend the rest of your life wondering what if..What is the worst that coud happen...she turns you down? But you never know till you take a chance. Might come across so cliche, but I am an advocate for 'we only live once, and tomorrow is not promised'. Next time you see her, sit with her and just try to start a conversation and before you know it..Body anguage is a big part of it and without meaning to bore you, I had had a similar experience with a guy at Uni and before I knew it..I just plucked up the courage and now we are seeing each other. Go get your woman;)
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