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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm really interested in this girl. Like, really interested. We both work in the same neighborhood, in bars. I manage a big nightclub and she works the graveyard shift in the café across the road from me.Anyway, for the last about three weeks we have been flirting like crazy, and we kiss on the mouth, but the thing is that... Well, with our line of work, it doesn't really mean much. I kiss about fifteen people on the mouth every night, just because it's a party and that's what you do, and I think she's just about a big a tease as I am. And because of that, I have no idea what's going on.I asked her to have a shot with us once, and she said she couldn't drink while she was working, so I said "So when are you going to come and have a drink with me when you're not working?" and she said "I don't know...." while giving me this very sexy seductive look, which is all very well and good but doesn't help me know what's going on.I mean, I don't even know if she likes girls or not. Or if she's single or not. And we are both such flirts that she might not even be able to take me seriously. We kiss a lot and she plays with my hair and calls me "baby", and we compliment each other, but like I said, we're the biggest flirts in the neighborhood and this behavior is about on par.I sent her 101 roses at her work, she will get them on Saturday. I don't know what to do! Any suggestions?
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 I love it !
It's just like in the movies and it's brave and big
and she'll never forget it for the rest of her life.
And anyone else she dates will have to out do you !
So that's a smart move!
Get the video rolling, this is going to be really big!
Love it, love it.
Romance lives !!!
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reader, Drat001  +, writes (8 April 2011):
That's an awful lot of money to spend on being anonymous. LOLI'm not saying you're wrong in sending roses, but, goodness, you're spending a lot of money on something that could very well backfire.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut... I like things to be like things out of a movie! A dozen roses is very sweet and romantic, but I like things to be more sort of dramatic and passionate. I have no intention of ever moving in with her and getting a cat or anything, so might as well start off as I mean to go on. Anyway they're anonymous so I can always deny it if she gets scared... hahaha oh dear.
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reader, Drat001 +, writes (8 April 2011):
101 roses? Holy crap! Isn't that a bit overkill? Did you stop to think that she might be put off by all the attention and think it might be a bit creepy? I mean, a dozen roses, that's romantic, but 101 roses, that's like something from a movie. Can you call the florist and cancel the order, or modify it to a much lower number? What I'm saying is, it's always better to send a dozen roses and let her know you're interested than send 101 and overwhelm her, especially at her work.
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