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writes:Quick question for the girls on here. How much would it bother you if your guy dipped. By dip i mean used chewing tobacco. Enough to leave him or view him differently? What if you have been with him a while and you barely find out hes been dipping? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow so i take it that girls hate tobacco huh
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 Urgh no..
I'd rather find a guy who doesnt have a high chance of getting mouth cancer!!
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reader, lemmygirlz +, writes (8 April 2011):
 i think its very nasty and would not be with him
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reader, blueangelx15 +, writes (8 April 2011):
Wow, not many girls are with guys that do this I'm guessing? I've only been with 2 guys in serious relationships and my ex, I was with for 2 years and he never told me, I found out on my own. And...I seen nothing wrong with it at all. There was no bad taste, or anything when kissing him and there's no bad taste or anything kissing my boyfriend now, either. I don't see a problem at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): Sorry, I'm not a fan of the taste, the smell, and the idea of oral cancer in my partner's mouth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): it is real nasty... i wouldn't be able to kiss the guy thus there would be no relationship.
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reader, inadaze123 +, writes (8 April 2011):
i could still love my guy, but probably couldn't kiss him..
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reader, madlib +, writes (7 April 2011):
fracking disgusting...it is disgusting kissing a guy who was chewing and its even worse seeing him holding a cup around with him and spitting in it every couple of minutes....not attractive and totally not cool looking. I grew up around guys who did that and they all were either single and or had horrible stained teeth
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reader, moon river +, writes (7 April 2011):
 Wouldn't bother me because I smoke, however, I do dislike tasting things in other peoples mouths hypocritically :oCan I just ask... Why ?? Is it a nicotine thing where you chew rather than smoke??
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reader, fishdish +, writes (7 April 2011):
 I guess I'm the only one that has stayed with a dipping boyfriend. I am grossed out by it, and warn him about the health aspects of it, but at the end of the day, don't judge him and love him any less. It is a habit that he himself is ashamed of so I don't like to rub it in his face how I feel. However, he does do me the honors of brushing his teeth/mouth out before coming near me to kiss. He doesn't even like it when I kiss his cheek when he's doing it!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 April 2011):
 in a word: EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWkissing someone who smokes is like licking the inside of a dirty ashtray I would imagine it's worst with chew...and that whole spitting thing....
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (7 April 2011):
 I am the same way, Honeypie. Dipping is pretty much the very grossest habit I can possibly imagine. Soooo icky!!!
I don't care how cute he is, that nasty pile of grody spit is ugly enough. Couldn't do it. And if I found out about dipping, it'd be a deal breaker if he didn't quit immediately.
Seriously, most other things I'm pretty open-minded and forgiving. But dipping?? Oooh, the horrors. That's a deal breaker.
Those are my thoughts. Sorry, they're not exactly in your favor!! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2011): Ewe yuck hate it. And I smoke and I still hate it. I had a BF once that dipped and it was a deal breaker for me.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (7 April 2011):
 Yes, I think dip is absolutely disgusting. The smell and even worse the TASTE (when you kiss) is enough for me to gag. My husband used to use dip, but he didn't while we dated because I told him it was gross. He started to use it again when he was in the field( military) and deployed.
He doesn't use it at home though, I told him I will not kiss a mouth that taste like "shit" (in lack of a better word).
I would NOT have dated him if he had used it back then around me. Point blank. It's gross and rots your gums and jawbone. NASTY NASTY habit.
And don't get me started on the spitting out that NASTY ASS gunk! *gags*
Sorry, lol, I'm very anti-dip.
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