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How to I get her attention?

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Question - (6 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2011)
A male United Arab Emirates age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i like a girl and this girl kind of dislikes me i dont know why...she in fact knows that i like her and she plays dirty being more interactive with other guys especially when i am around (hugging, flirting etc etc). She also doesnt talk to me much as much as she does with my friends.

Its annoying but...

Its payback time...i wanna teach her a lesson and i wanna gain her attention more.

How do i do this?? How do i get her to approach me??

plz help...:)

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A male reader, Partyboy123 Canada +, writes (6 April 2011):

Partyboy123 agony auntHello :)

I am close in age you to, I went through the same thing buddy.

The girl that I liked did it to make me jealous, which is a good thing for you. She most likely does not dislike you, if you be yourself around her and she doesn't seem to like you then its not worth busting your head over and you need to move on.

Tips:

- make her jealous'er (go flirt with her friends, act like your having a good time -ALL- the time, be confident around girls and your friends, dress well and keep good hygene) - she will see that you are confident and looking for other girls and she will want you so bad.

- make her come to you after you've made her jealous, practice some "takeaways", ask her to hangout at lunch one day, do it and show her a good time, the next day ask her and cancel on her, the next day hangout with her at lunch and don't make an excuse for yesterday, if she texts you, reply to most of them but not all, it will make her think about you more.

- if she looks at you, put on your nicest smile, or smile and wink, if she blushes, then she is obviously flattered and appreciates it.

- give her nice, sweet, but not to heavy comments, and not all the time, and DON'T use the same compliment.

Day one: "you look very pretty today!"

day two: "did you change your hair? it looks great!"

day three: she will probably expect one, so don't say anything - she will get curious and it makes her think about you

day four: "whats cooking good looking?" - or don't say anything, just smile, you decide

day five: "whats up butter cup?"

day six: say nothing again

day seven: you decide

Thats basically what i would do to provide compliments in a way that i show a girl i like her, but to also be unpredictable and mysterious

Look here: http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Girl-to-Like-You

its kind of basic, and it has some good tips.. but in all reality that may not be the truest way to get a girl to like you...

1. be yourself

2. show that you care

3. she will either like you or not - if she does great, if she doesn't, find another

hope i helped :D

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