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writes:For this I am going to call my friend.. Kate. Kate is a very pretty girl , smart , athletic ,and loves to party! The only problem she has is boys. She usually comes to me for advice on them , because I am usually the one to listen, But I've ran out of advice to give. She always comes to me with the same problem , that she can't just 'hook up' with someone without dating them too and I mean that's understandable, but she expects a relationship to come out of every cute guy she talks to that's really nice to her. She had a thing with a guy that didn't want anything committed but she stayed with him to see if anything would come out of it and he ended up with one of her other friends behind her back. She's still on the search for another guy... I have been trying to tell her she'll meet someone someday , but she just won't listen. Any advice on advice I could give her to further more explain to her that she doesn't need a boyfriend?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): While I understand that you feel you must help your friend I would let Kate figure things out for herself, let her know of what you think, and leave it at that. Unless you want to be in that role of putting sense into her constantly, it's generally best to leave her to make her own mistakes. You can always say "I told you so...".My two cents.
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