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*zh198
writes:i met this gal ages ago about October last year online we have been talking a lot until few months ago i emailed her no reply for some weeks. i got a reply today does she still love me and why has she replied so late to my email??? please help please thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 I don't know how far you live from a grocery store.But you're scraping the bottom of the peanutbutter jar and you need to go out and buy a new jar.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (7 April 2011):
 hi Mzh198,
At least she is thinking of you now. Though some people are naturally disorganised, and take time to get around to doing things.
Maybe she is interested, maybe not. It is too early to tell. But there are so many potential gals out there.
How about improving your chances of meeting a pretty gal but getting out in the sunshine? Going for a walk in a nice park near you?
Also consider contacting the Citizen's Advice Bureau near you in England. Pour out your heart to them and they may have some good suggestions of possible groups in your area you could look at. There are often many more opportunities to bring joy to our lives and meet other people, if only a kind person will tell you more about what is on offer closer to home.
Losing your virginity will happen in due course. I never allowed it to bother me. I had had my share of, 'he's interesed, but i'm not' Versus, 'wow, he's great, wish he was not with.....'
But you need to allow opportunities to meet new gals. And there are millions of yet to be experienced great times ahead. Don't be afraid to keep looking.
Yes message the gal you met online, but keep your options open in case a really nice gal or gals are living close, and wondering and hoping and wishing to meet someone as nice as you,
Best wishes,
Abella
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reader, The Realist +, writes (7 April 2011):
 She may have gone through a rough patch in her life that she couldn't bring you into. That's the problem with meeting people online, you only know what they tell you. I am not saying that you two aren't in love but I do think that it would be best not to put all of your feelings into this one girl. Especially if she doesn't live in a place that you can get to.
She may have met someone else but you will never know and I don't think that would really matter to you now that she is back in your life. I still say that because you are young you shouldn't put all of your effort into someone who you can't see regularily because that is what young relationships are all about. It's not about being so serious, it's about hanging out and having a good time.
I'm sure there are girls around you that you are interested in and that doesn't mean you have to stop talking to the online one either.
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reader, mzh198 +, writes (7 April 2011):
mzh198 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni did'nt mention we are/were in love she has replied twice 2 day saying her fones broken andd she has no cred and she is getting it back in june or may should i belive this or what more advice please
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reader, cas  +, writes (6 April 2011):
chances are she does have, or has met someone else. Or she was too busy or maybe she sensed that things were getting too serious and she got scared. She might not be ready to start something but the fact that she eventually replied means that she value your friendship.I suggest you ask her why you haven't heard from her and be honest about your feelings. No use hiding it and hoping she would fall in love then later when you invested your time and feelings,find out that she just want a friendship. It'll be more painful later on.All the best :D
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reader, Philips +, writes (6 April 2011):
 She has something else going in her life,,,obvious.
You are not the center of her life, accept it.
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reader, Partyboy123 +, writes (6 April 2011):
 There could be many complications in her life because you only talk to her "online", thus, she may be seeing another person, she may be having a hard time with family, a stressful semester at school, hardship with her social life. You do not know, and she may not ever tell you. Meeting someone online and trying to have a relationship with that person is extremely difficult, I think it is best that you date someone who is local and see where it takes you.I do not mean to break your heart or anything, i was just stating my opinion on the situation that you are in.I hope i helped, and if not, I am sorry for hurting you.partyboy123
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reader, cupidus +, writes (6 April 2011):
She likes you. Love is not the way to look at this.
It's platonic at best.
Keep up with the people in your neighbourhood.
Keep life in the real.
Go for a walk.
Get some face to face
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