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writes:Okay, I'll keep it simple. I've liked this guy for quite some time. And I don't want to. I've dated other guys, and tried to keep my distance. We work together, we disliked each other at first but the more we started joking and playing around, I fell for the guy. I'm too dependant on him. If I can't fix something or need help lifting something, I don't even have to ask. I just call his name and point. Well, I get a smart ass remark, but he does it either way seconds after. Somehow our small fights always turn into poking wars or playing fighting. That's where I start growing more feelings. Blah, blah, blah. I tend to ignore him so we don't have much communication now, but he always has to provoke me for not saying much, by teasing me. I used to tell him everything, but I saw that it wasn't helping in this situation. But he always has to know everything, and snoop into my phone conversations. Drives me nuts. Can I just confess to him that I like him and that its better if he avoids and ignores me the best he can so I can get over him or is that just weird and I shall keep to myself?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe see's me more of a sister. Orrrr, he's comfortable with me and the flirting helps his ego. I have to draw a line to this though. Co workers and boss all think were dating.
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reader, devilzown  +, writes (6 April 2011):
You can tell him ;) chances are you'll end up kissing him anyway but if a girl told me that straight up, i'd appreciate it.Sure, it'll be a little awkward, but if he's teasing you he's sort of into you anyway ;pgl with it!PS: why don't you want to be with him? Sounds like you two get along just fine...
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