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Dating: Help and advice

I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, but I still like this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - hey!! I'm in a bit of a dilemma here...so i am a freshman in highschool, and i have this huge crush on a senior who is in marching band with me. he never really payed attention to me, but after noticing how i look at him, he seems to want to talk to ...

His best friends girlfriend

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8 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years and are so inlove with eachother. But we have been getting in arguments almost everyday for over 6 months now... Bad ones. His best friends girlfriend goes to his school, and wont stay off of him. they ...

He says's he "loves me" does he really mean it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - i like this guy.... of course. and like he says "i love you" all the time to me... but im not sure if he means it... like if its a joke type thing or if hes serious, im not sure he knows i seriously like him.... ...

I'm shorter than her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (M) - Im in love with a girl. But Im shorter than her. By alot. How can I bridge the height gap?...

What is wrong with me? I can't get over him!

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8 September 2010 (F) - I can't get over him! What is wrong with me??? He left me for his ex-wife its been three weeks but I can't get over it. I cry at different moments in the day and I literally feel a pain in my chest. He hurt me. In 2 months, he managed to hurt me ...

Does he like anyone? Id be fine if we were just friends!..what do you think?

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8 September 2010 (?) - Hi everyone. There is this guy in a few of my classes that I like. Lets call him L. Ok, so L came here from Africa because his parents do missionary work there in Kenya. So anyways, I thought he would be more popular because he is cute, funny, ect. ...

My parents hate my boyfriend to death! Help!

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8 September 2010 (F) - Hello everyone I have a little confusion going on...i want some advise from people that have gone through it or any wise suggestion. I'm in love with this guy ive been dating for 2 years...he means a lot to me. This person my family hates to death ...

My girlfriend is having bad dreams about our relationship

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8 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is having bad dreams about our relationship. In her dreams, everything is fine with us until - an ex of mine shows up and gets my attention. She is extremely worried about me leaving her for an ex. She has not met my ex. Any ex....

Saying goodbye...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - Hi, please help... I met a guy in America and had to come back to the UK because my visa ran out, i met a guy there who was lovely, charming, generous and funny. He swept me off my feet and i've never felt so much like a lady. We didn't say too m...

Cursing...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - Would you allow your boyfriend to curse at you and call you a bitch during an argument? ...

End it... or keep it going?

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8 September 2010 (F) - I am 18 and Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years in that time we broke up for about six months but we still talked the whole time so it was like we were still together now we have been together for maybe a couple months now we won ...

It takes him soooo long to climax! Does he not fancy me any more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been seeing a this guy for a few months now and about 5 weeks ago we starting having sex. The first time we had sex it was great - he is very confident and totally unselfish in bed. The first night we had sex a few times with no problems...

One of my photographers recently has asked me to do more adult work for a private portfolio. Is this cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - I am in a great loving relationship (5 years). I recently (a year ago) quit a well paying job as a stripper. I do artistic nude modeling to help make ends meet as my "respectable" job doesn't pay too well. One of my photographers re...

Girlfriend not interested in sex anymore..

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8 September 2010 (M) - Hey all, hope you can help :) Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. Until about six months ago we had a great sex life, no problems. Now however its become awkward, like I know I want to and I think she does too but it just does...

I wanna have fun and see my friends and my girlfriend.

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8 September 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm a girl and I'm dating my first girlfriend. She lives one hour away by train but I really love her. I didn't come out,my mom thinks i'm with a boy right now. This is one of my problems actually. I'm 17 and my mom says i'm not mat...

Long waited orgasms.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - It takes me very long to have an orgasm and I have tried every trick in the book including letting the nature of orgasms take its toil. I get extremly wet and my man thinks I am having mutltiple orgasm, but i only get an orgasm maybe after 2 hours ...

After our date I couldn't tell if he liked me...

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8 September 2010 (F) - i met a guy up with a guy after 6 years i got his number by accident so i chanced texting him, went well enough. he came to see me which went well then i went up to see him. have no idea how it went, im so confused hes either shy or just not ...

Should I ask him... or am I just paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - I am a 20 yr old and my boyfriend of 9 months is 25. For some odd reason since the very beginning i have never really fully trusted him even though he is a really good to me and is very sweet and caring and says he loves me. But i have always f...

Who is the dad???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - i'm 18 i live near london my boyfriend lives near manchester, im pregnant - im 17 weeks today my problem started back in may i went out for my friends aunts birthday we went to this club, the group got split and i lost everyone in this club, my...

His talking about his exes or pretty women is making me feel so insecure... help!

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8 September 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for three years and things are pretty good. He is a wonderful partner however there is something that bothers me. I am the opposite end to what his 'type' is. He has usually dated women who were caucasian, very ...

Torn between my parents and my now ex boyfriend... help!

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8 September 2010 (F) - ok i'm going through some seriouse hard times right now, i'm a muslim but i'm in love with a christian we, secretly dated each other for six months then i told my parents, before i told my parents i told my boyfreind that my parents were never going ...

My feelings for her have totally changed since she got (and dumped) this other guy!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

8 September 2010 (M) - I am out permanently of a 7 year on and off relationship. I am the one who most of the time did the dumping, usually through frustration, but both knowing it was just a fall out. We have both played our parts. When together again, my faults were ...

Trying to look older

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - How to make myself look older? I'm 19 and I guess I look my age or less. I probably look 20 or 21 if I wear make up or maybe even my age some people say. However, I would like to look older maybe 23 or something. My boyfriend is 34 and its weird...

I miss my girlfriend and I am worried about her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (M) - ok well my girlfriend and i have been togetehr a really long time and i love her with all my heart and so she feels the same she let me know that a million times. i honestly could c myself being with her forever(sorry if i sound stupid)i really love ...

What is this girl doing? is she interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (M) - Well, my first question was a little long and dramatic, here's the quick follow-up question *cough*. So 4 years ago my best friend got himself a girlfriend from spain who was jawdropping gorgeous. I fell in love with her...Anyway...I think she liked ...

How can I tell him I just want to date and not be his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - I have a really HUGE problem. This really sweet guy friend of mine asked me on a date. I said yes, and at the time I thought it would be a nice experience for me. It will be my first date (and I've been holding off on this for a while). Soon aft...

Should I take it slower?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - so i have been dating this guy for almost three weeks now, we've been having a great time and i'm very happy since i got out of a long relationship and i'm finally moving on. i feel i'm ready for a new long relationship, i like the feeling and the ...

Is this his way of being friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - We were together for a year and a half. Its been a pretty turbulent relationship due mostly to the fact that about 3 months into the realtionship he had sex with his next door neighbor. He ended up admitting it to me about a month after it happened ...

Where have all the single women gone in my area???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (M) - I am finding it really hard to meet single women and could really do with some new ideas from the aunts and uncles out there. I have been single for a while after the break-up of a long-term relationship (9 years), am 36, with my own flat, an int...

He's confused about his girlfriend and oscillates between wanting to be friends and then wanting more from me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - Hi,can someone tell me if this situation is fixable? about month ago I ran into my chilhood crush who I haven't seen in 15 yrs. We started talkin and to my suprise he had a crush on me too back then. The problem now is he has an on/off girlfriend of ...

Is he playing or using both woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - Here's the deal, you're a woman that has been involved with a man for an extended period of time(more than 3 yrs) and you find out that while he has been sleeping with you he has hidden the fact he has a live in GF. Would you say that this man is...

I don't want her to leave, I can't live without her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (M) - Well I've been 'seeing this girl' for the best part of two months now, and will continue too until the end of this year as its a very important year for us academically. She decided that we couldn't dating or official until the end of the year ...

I want to leave him to be with the other guy but I love them both!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - i am going out with this guy(boy 1) and have been on and off for most of 2010. but then this other guy came along(boy 2) and said he liked me and wrote me a poem and treats me waaaaay better than my actual boyfriend.boy 2 says he loves me and he is ...

His tightness with money bothers me! Is there any future with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - I've divorced my husband after 15 years together. He is controlling and I just followed his decisions all the time. The last year before we separate he shaved his head and lost a lot of weight and refuse to have sex. Then I met this 20 years ...

Low class guys asking me out, is it ok not to date then?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - I wonder if u cn help with advice. I had problems were I ws working and I was forced to leave I am currently serching abd hoping to find smthing soon. The problem I have is tht I don't feel like being in a relationship as most of the guys who ask me ...

I don't feel like things are going anywhere for me since the breakup

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8 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid Iam a 19 years old girl with a big problem.I got out of a serious realtionship about a year ago and since my ex I fell like i cant seem to get close to any one.Iv dated but it just dosent seem like anything is going to go anywere ...

Is this question too personal? did I screw up and say something wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - My personality is that I'm pretty open. I have no problems sharing information about myself because I have nothing to hide. Ask and I will answer. But not everyone is like this and I get that, but it's hard to remember what is and is not OK around ...

I slapped the man I love!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - I slapped the man I adore to death this weekend when I was drunk, well we were both drunk. He now doesn't want to speak or talk to me. I clearly don't want this, what should I do? A bit of back round on us. Him and I have been on and off for over...

How stable are peoples feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - I'm wondering how stable most people's (in particular, men's) feelings are. I know everyone is different, but I'm talking in general, or you personally. I ask because if I fall in love, I see it as a long term, stable thing and don't feel the need ...

Doesn't want a relationship but still acts as if we were still together

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend of one year said that he wants us to take a break. He used to be head over heels in love with me, even so much as saying that he could see me as his wife. But this past summer was extremely difficult for the both of us and I said ...

Mixed Messages and Confusing Texts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - Ok. I screwed things up a bit. I met a guy online, we had definite chemistry even before we met (which doesn’t usually happen, to me at least). The first date was at an outdoor concert in the rain, and it was a little awkward. Afterwards, I wa...

Has my boyfriend lost interest in me? could there be someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - I'm confused. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Lately, he's been somewhat.. eh, I want to say aggressive. To the extent where it's starting to annoy, worry, and hurt me. What I mean by aggressive is that he used to be soft, and ...

Why does she treat me like I'm invisible when we're out with friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

8 September 2010 (M) - Ok so all summer ive seen this girl and we get along great when we're alone, but when we're with a group of people she acts completely different towards me only, and when i say different i mean she is really quiet and antisocial and doesn't even bat ...

He wants to give it another try!

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8 September 2010 (F) - I was recently in a four year relationship and it ended and for good this time. I wasn't happy but 3 of the years I cheated with this one guy and everytime me and my ex split I ran to him cuz he made me feel good and I really care for him. My past ...

My parents don't like my girlfriend!

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8 September 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have a very serious problem and it just happens to be my parents. The issue is that everyone i know in my family hate my girlfriend and even people i don't know do because my family goes around and talks about her. Before i just ...

Turned on a dime..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

8 September 2010 (M) - I live on the east coast. I've met the girl of my dreams in San Francisco about 36 months ago and she, in turn, met who she called the "guy she was going to grow old with." Two issues: she's still in a divorce and nasty custody battle with her ex. ...

Is there any way that you can make someone want you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - I know this may sound silly but ive seen it happen before and i jsut wondered if there was a chance, is there any way that you can make someone want you after they've said they dont. I know that does kinda answer itself as a big NO but theres so...

I told him about my past sexual abuse now he is distant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - I recently told my lover about sexual abuse in my past (my lover lives abroad), this stemmed from an arguement we had when I completely freaked out about something that he did. And I felt it was only right that I should tell him what had happened ...