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Dating: Help and advice

I Don't Feel Pretty Enough To Be With Him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - So..I'm dating this guy, and he's really sweet and nice, and I think he's really hott. But I just don't feel pretty enough to be with him. I asked him if he could change anything about me, what would it be, and he said he'd make me have bigger ...

Sex with another guy...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently broke up, and it's killing me. I just want to know how do people usually deal with the fact that she won't be sleeping with me anymore and will probably have sex with another guy in the future? any techniques or just ...

Spicing things up for some birthday sex!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been with the same man for 20 years, and I am still horny for this man. I am 44 years old, and he is 52. I want to spice up the relationship because our sex life has gone down. I know that our age difference may play a big roll...

When do you think he will move back in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - hi, I was wondering if anyone could help. My boyfriend moved out of my house last december firstly after sayin he was down then sayin i made him unhappy. We got back together and he says will move back when time is right. In mean time all his ...

Friend dilemma... what do I do, I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Recently i met this guy i really really like and i was so into him but he had a girlfriend and i had a boyfriend so i never expected that there could be something between us. We both go to the same school and our significant others go to different ...

How can I make him mines again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend recently broke up with me because he said he wasn't sexually attracted to me anymore and has been seeing me as a friend. I still love him and want him back. Is there any hope of winning him back? What can I do to make him mine again?...

How do I handle this situation? I'm so confused about it all.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - I'm 33, my boyfriend 51. We were together for four years. He helped me get out of an abusive relationship, helped me financially and promised to marry me and start a family. He took me to look at rings four years ago but never proposed. Its been ...

Why has our relationship become so awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Lately I have been so stressed out and crying and been so emotional thinking too much about our relationship failing or him leaving or me not having feelings for him anymore...I dont know where these feelings have come from or why but I cant handle ...

She has a boyfriend, what are the possible courses of action?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - Some 7 months ago I was having serious problems with my girlfriend and met this gorgeus super sweet girl. Our connection was instant, and we started hanging out a lot. All of a sudden she tried to kiss me, opening a Pandora box. It was difficult to ...

When is the right time to become more intimate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - hi friends, I'm a typical indian girl and I've been with my partner for the past 5 years. How far should I go with respect to being physical with him? Very confused... please help!...

How to stop the boredom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Hello Dear Cupid, I just had a quick question for everyone, who may be able to help me out? We all know how once you've been dating someone a while stuff in the bedroom can get overplayed, and boring. I was just wondering if anyone had any i...

Should I trust that he won't cheat if I'm lying in his bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 8 years. 5 of those years have been long distance (seeing each other 5 times a year for a week at a time). recently I found out that he has been cheating for 3 years mainly with one girl, he says he doesnt/didnt ...

Would he never consider dating her,because she is a bit taller?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Me and my best friend just started high school last week and we try to befriend our classmates, but it seems she already has taken an interest in a guy. he looks and stares quite often at her, and when she catches him, he doesn't look away, he just ...

My boyfriend can't cum from oral...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - I have a good deal of experience in sex and have been told by all my past partners that I give a great blow job. The thing is I haven't been able to get my boyfriend to come from one. He wants to, I would love him to, but I just can't seem to get ...

What is up with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 6 months and things have been great for us. It's my first and his first real relationship as all previous girlfriends have not really liked him. One of the many highlights to why he loves me is because I ...

The novice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - This question may seem rather strange, but here goes: I'm 31, had no serious girlfriends, one just wanted me for sex, and the other lived at the other end of the country! I've never had sex, or even kissed (peck on the cheek) anyone! When I ...

I know his love is real but is it enough for me to be treated like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Good evening Baby E here so i've done it after 3 yrs of my life which i've now wasted i've been seeing this guy his got a hectic schedule for this year we only saw each other thrice... saturday night he surprise visited me but i was upset with h...

We're sort of in an open relationship but I don't want him sleeping with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend was invited to a wedding with this girl that likes him...............? and he just told me yesterday that they will be staying in a hotel after the wedding just to let you understand a little better we are sort of in an open relation...

Age...not just a number? Is he playing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Almost in love with my bf after almost seven months...16 hour dates, cooking together, long drives, pet names, always laughing together, sweet moments.we have a 15yr difference in age and that as well as other factors worry me. Our musical tastes ...

What do you think? Should I ring him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - ive been getting to know this guy..i like him and i think he likes me too..even though he hasn't said anything. i have free minutes and we talk all the time..but i feel like am the one whos always calling him. he texts me sometimes. w...

Should this man be trusted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Ok.. I just started dating this man who is 35. I am 24. I have known him for about 2 years but we hadn't dated before, though he had asked me out a couple of times. One of the reasons I did not date him before, aside from me being unavailable, was ...

When I say I love you to him sometimes he sounds annoyed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - okay so ive been dating this guy for nearly 2 years. he says he loves me but i dont know anymore. hes always mad at me, and never really hears me out even if im not wrong. we fight alot well kindof. but alot of the time hes sweet. i just dont know ...

How do I make her realise that anyone but her ex is a better choice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - So I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now, and we've been on several dates. Everything has worked out well up until now. But last night, she told me that her ex-boyfriend is acting like he wants to get back with her. The breakup hurt ...

I feel bad for not contacting him, should I say sorry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - I asked this guy out. He cancelled on me once and we rescheduled for later in the week. Then he ignored my attempts to contact him about our plans. I got mad and sent a text to him calling him an ass. He sent a smiley face back. And then i sent ...

Frustrated with a world of jerks

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - why do pretty girls seem to go through more heartbreak. It seems that no one is safe from being used and abused no matter what their appearance. I am not saying that I'm the "Queen of the Universe" but I have always been told I am very attractive. ...

Did I sound too needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - hello, My boyfriend of almost a year and a half cheated on me with a girl 10 years younger (i'm 29, she is 19, HE is 30!!) I threw him out and he is off with her I guess. This question is just a back story as I'm dealing with that better than I t...

She's too young..do I lose contact with her or tell her my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - Firstly let me say this is the hardest thing I've ever had to write. I'm 22 years old, and, though it kills me to admit it, I'm finding myself falling in love with a girl of 14. I've known the girl in question since she was 9, when I met her f...

How do you show a guy you really love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - How can you show a guy that you really love him?...

What's a cute idea for a gift to buy for my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Is there anything that is cute and not cheesy that a girl can buy a guy to show that misses him. But mind you, I wont take him back until he changes the way he treats me....

Should I give up on her and move on or keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - I have a serious question. Me and my ex broke up four months after her dad died. She told me she had severe depression and she didn't ever wanna go back to that so she decided to go get help. She also told me that she's an alcoholic. She to...

Giving your all and your partner doesn't? Why it it this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4977 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Why is it that one person give their all in a relationship, and the other person doesn't?...

I know he's the one...but not sure if he feels the same.!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - This same sorta question probably appears a lot but anyway.. .I met this guy in work just over a year ago and really hit it off we liked all the same music and tv shows and I had never met someone so like me before... Everyone in work thought ...

Boyfriend of 3years hasn't spoken to me in a month.. he's making me feel sad and pathetic, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4977 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - i have not heard from my bf in a month. last i told him anything i said he know swhere to find me bc he kept saying he 'doesnt feel right', cheating or lying has not been an issue with him and i, we have been with on another for 3 yrs. he missed our ...

I'm afraid he doesn't like me anymore...how can I get his attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - SO im 14, and theres this guy ive known for a few years, he sings and plays guitar, just like me. people are always asking me why i havent kissed anyone and one guy said that i was the hottest girl in school but still havent kissed anyone! But i ...

He won't be clear with me about our relationship...do I stay or do I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - hi i have been seeing this guy for about 5 months now, at the first few months he would ask what would i say if he was to ask me out (as his gf) i replyed i would say yes! ever since then i have not heard anything more about it, just recintly he ...

My family doesn't like my boyfriend...due to cultural differences!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4977 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - okay so ive ended up getting the guy of my dreams!! literally im head over heels for him, weve known each other for like 7 months and only been dating for 1 but hes everything i ever wanted hes sweet, good looking and he thinks the same about ...

Am I being rational if I don't want her talking to the guy she cheated on me with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, i am currently in a long distance rlationship with this girl that i've know since new year's day, 2010. things started out ok, then really picked up in march, april. we broke up in july, but have been dating again since 3rd septem...

Sex dilemma!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, posted yesterday about an issue with my girlfriend. Now I got another question about sex in relationships. Is it normal that I want sex once a day if the possibility is there? Is it uncomfortable for the woman in the relationship if ...

Help!!! Is she cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - I love my girlfriend so much, but my gut tells me she might be doing something behind my back. Recently she confessed that at one point she was confused on her orientation. Prior to this I had my suspicions, which came true. In the last month she ...