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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is it normal to be attracted to older men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I'm 18, and for as early as I could remember I've been attracted to older men (40-50). Maybe because of their masculinity and overall maturity. My dad recently told me if he found out I was seeing a man in that age group, he wouldn't approve of it. ...

Should I dwell on a drunken kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - Sunday night I was drunk and My roommate had a girl over he has been dating and she kissed me, just friendly she was drunk too. I didn't think anything of it, but kidding he said kiss him again with some tongue, I didn't think she would actually do ...

Am I just being an obsessive girlfriend or is he just not that into me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out since january. At first we texted all the time. I swear there was hardly a text where he didn't answer me.Every e-mail was answered, he was never to busy for me and i him. We saw eachother everyday in class ...

Do guys pay attention to how fat or skinny we are when we have sex with them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hello! All my life (or at least a majority of it) I've been self-conscious about my body because I have a lot of body hair, small breasts, and have a little pudge (not fat but just a little belly). Well up until just recently, I've thought of how ...

My girlfriend is insecure and controlling...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 3.5 years now. When I met her, I was working night shift at a gas station. In the past three years I have decided to go to college, I am a junior majoring in biochemistry, and I am planning to apply for a Phd ...

Should I mention my ex to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I had a break up 6 months earlier, now i had moved on and have a new boyfriend. I have not told him about my ex boyfrnd coz he loved me since we where in school. Should i tell him about that, leave the thing as going on coz everything is well and ...

He doesn't deserve to be a father so what do I do? Have it aborted or what?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I am nine weeks pregnant, almost ten. I am engaged to my boyfriend. I was not planning on getting pregnant and never thought having kids was something i had to do. I found i was pregnant and told my finace and he was so happy and exited. I was not. ...

Moodiness from him because I won't take things further...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Would a guy who's in love with you lose interest and just simply not talk to you if you refuse to take things further with him? Or is it genuinely hard for him to do so? (Also considering the fact that the two were good friends before emotions came ...

Since she moved away she's not paying the same attention to me... advice needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend acts like she loves me so much and that she wants to talk to me soo much every day. we have a long distance relationship because she moved to canada but every day she inboxes me on facebook saying how she misses me so much and how she ...

I need to know how do you get a guy interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - So I'm 19 years old and I've never had a relationship. I really need to know wat im doin wrong guys! I recently met someone, who i'm really attracted too and i felt that the feelings were mutual. I sent him a message letting him no that I'm ...

How do I fix things and get them back to how they used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now and everything was going great up until about a month ago and then things changed drastically. He wanted me to open up and voice when I have a problem but it seems as though when I do ...

He claims to love me yet he slept with someone else because he needed sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hello I am 29 years old and have been in the same realtionship for 7 years. 5 years ago my boyfriend made a move 2000 miles from me with my blessing, for work. I told him if we could survive a year apart I would move. With the economy, not being ab...

Should try and salvage whatever is left of our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hi! I want all you guys opinions on if this 'relationship' is worth saving. Me and Jake* had the typical highs chool romance. We went out from when we were 14 until we were 16. Ok 2 years may not sounds like much, but when your in high school its ...

My love of 3 years just moved out because she is confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - 14 days ago i received the most shocking new of my life. My girlfriend of 3 years told me that she wanted to move out and get a place of her own because she was confused about a lot of things. We were engaged two years ago but i lied to her (yes it ...

Discomfort...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - This is a very embarrassing question but, last night my boyfriend touched me down below for the first time and it hurt a bit so I told him to stop and today it still feels a bit uncomfortable, I don't know if this is because of him touching me or ...

First True Love Never Lasts. Prove me wrong

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Alrighhhtty, We'll cut to the chase. The love between my ex and I is well..confusing.So I'm asking for help, any advice, thoughts and suggestions. Help me out here! Get this, I went to middle school with my ex, totally didn't know each other t...

Three years and no proposal!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I've been with the same guy for 3 years now. We have a daughter together and all of our friends say they are jealous of our relationship because we never fight. We know everything about eachother. The only thing I dont have is an engagment ring or a ...

She's not scared to lose me, is that a good thing or a bad thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend was really depressed and she was telling me how her life was all messed up and how her mum was making her feel miserable. at the end of it she said i love you don't you forget it. and then when i asked her if she's scared to lose me ...

What is needy behavior that turns men off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hey all! I just got broken up with after a year plus relationship. The reasons given where that I am too demanding and most of all I am too needy. Not things a girl wants to hear but I am starting to think that maybe there is some truth in th...

When another guy wants me than he'll show he likes me

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23 September 2010 (F) - There is this guy that i knew since high school and when i went away to college which is only one state away was when he started telling me he really likes me.But he never calls though he text like every single day from day to night.He wrote me a ...

I'm clueless about what to buy him for our first anniversary present, and it's tomorrow!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hello, I need some help. Tomorrow my boyfriend and I celebrate one year of relationship. He already got me an anniversary present, but I haven't yet. I don't know what to get him, I'm short with money at this time, so I don't know what would ...

He's suddenly ignoring my texts! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - hi to everyone here..i had a problem..well,thereis a guy n i m having a trong crush over him.in starting,for 2-3months we jus met at work daily for 4-5mins,he use to talk to me,i thought he was interested in me.then,later,i also got ...

She's 16 but lied and told me she was 18 and now I have feelings for her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - 11 months ago i met a girl. At the time she told me she was 18. Months later the truth came out that she was 16. i am 22 years old. It wasnt hard to believe that she was older than her real age. Her friends are all around my age. Her Ex bf is a mon...

How I should keep this relationship because I want to eventually hangout

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - hi everyone. we met when we were kids, and now were 21. she had a huge crush on me as kids now we just started talking online as friends. we has some fun convos. and this is the ending of one of the comments she left me. im so into talking to her b...

Boyfriend's family kicked him out...

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23 September 2010 (F) - So, i need some help guys. My boyfriend, 19, just recently got kicked out of his house because his family doesn't want him anymore. They think he causes nothing but trouble, and misfortune for the family and that he's just a waste of space and mon...

I'm very attached to my boyfriend! how can I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Thanks for taking the time to read my question! Well, there's a somewhat emotional issue I've been trying to deal with over the last couple months that has been bugging me quite a bit...and it's gotten better, but I thought maybe some of you guys...

Should I send him pics, or should he be respectful of my decisions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of almost a month wants pics but im not that comfortable about it. He is sorta mad about it because I said idk. Its also a semi long distant relationship. I really like him! Should I do it or should he be repectful of my decisions? ...

Should I give it time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I just ended a bad relationship of 8 years in which i did not love this man but came out with a 4yr old daughter. I saw one of my ex bf at a wedding and he was there with his girl friend. so long story short we end up going out on a date and we had ...

Super complicated relationship, should I trust her again and give her another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - hi well its started we met online on msn, she used to love and tell me that she loves me so much but i was with another girl so i kept blocking her and telling her that i love another girl till a day me and the other girl argued together so i went t...