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Dating: Help and advice

He wants to be single?

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29 September 2010 (F) - i was with this guy for 9 months he was my first love and i lost my virginity to him.everything was great until he said to me he wants to be single. i dont understand why he wants to be single or if i done anything to him ? he said to me yesterday ...

2 Guys lead to 2 different futures. Which do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm in a little bit of trouble here. Y'see, I am dating a guy that I LOVE so much, and he loves me back. There are a few complications with him though, he's amazing and all, but I'm 2 years older than him, and he's got alot of issues that he NEEDS ...

Anniversary tomorrow and don't know what to do!!!! Help!

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29 September 2010 (F) - Eek! Its our 2 year anniversary tomorrow (since we met) and weve been so busy that we havent thought about booking anything we would like to do. I wanted to see a show in London or go to a spa but 1. Its too late to book, and.. 2. We can only se...

What would you do if someone you met for the first time smells funny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Lets just say you are going to meet someone for the first time (woman/man) and as soon as she/he gets in the car she/he smells like onions better yet bummy.what would be your first reaction? And how would you approach her/him? Lol :)...

He's not in to sexy text-talk any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - My bf of two years used to love sexy talk via texts. Now he doesn't really engage in it. Is there a reason for this change? He still enjoys sex and gets turned on, so I don't quite understand the change. ...

Met a great guy in Turkey but not sure how to proceed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have just come back from Turkey in July and met a really nice Turkish man who is aged 22 we got on really well and with my son and family. We have spoken everyday and we are now in love and would love to get married one day. He wishes to move here ...

How can I stop feeling paranoid about my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Well first i will tell you exactly what my problem is and explain it in detail. Any girl i get really attached to after about a month or 2 months i get paranoid that they are going to dump me. So basically 4 years ago i dated this girl, and after ...

I've never felt this way before! Do you think he feels the same for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been friends with this guy for about 5 months now. Ever since the first night we hung out we have been basically inseparable. We never did anything sexual, we never even kissed. I'm in love with him! But I don't think he would ev...

In a relationship with a military man. Can anyone help me understand him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am finding this emotion so hard to cope with and feel as if this is the only thing bad in my relationship with a wonderful man. I love him very much, and he has said he loves me too and thinks about me all the time. I have been in a 5month rela...

How do I get older women to notice me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - what is the best way for older females to notice me? im 19 i like females from 25 and up to 45. people help me out. im not ugly or anythin i look good . i mean alot of women my age want to go out with me. but ilike older women. any advice well be ...

What do you think? Are we girlfriend and boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - ok so ive been getting to know this guy for a few months now.. we've been chatting everyday for hours in a month...phone calls and text messaging.. when i saw him..we kissed alot..i gave him a massage (he loved it) and he said he loved been a...

What do women really hate about men?

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29 September 2010 (M) - What do women really hate about men? This is a copy of another posters question aimed at men - I liked it so much, I copied it, but in reverse!...

Why doesn't she answer my call or call me right back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - i met some one with whom i wanna advance my relationship,got her phone number,but i doesn't replies quite regularly ,she replies after an hour or so and says that she's busy any suggestions?...

My boyfriend claims he loves me and can't live without me, so why does he behave this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Okay, so this is my first time doing this. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years. We have had our ups and downs like any normal couple. Over the last 2 years I have noticed a huge decline in his yearning for me. And with each passing ...

My mother's promiscuity is influencing my life and my sisters' lives!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I live with my mother and younger sisters who are sixteen and fourteen. My parents divorced when we were young but I am the only one who remembers a time where dad lived with us. My mom is truly promiscious that it borderlines prostitution. Sh...

What do men hate?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - What is the main thing that makes a man hate or dislike a woman? Men only please!...

Is she being honest with me? Did she really sleep with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I was away out of the Provence working for a few months and my wife cheated on me. She says she's sorry and it will never happen again. I found out because a friend called me at 330 in the morning and said my wife was seeing this other guy. She ...

Know any good quotations?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Hello I am giving my girlfriend a gift because she is an up and coming writer. I wanted to ask does anyone know of any good quotes to motivate her that I could include in this gift about writing, creative writing or writers? Any inspirational qu...

He seemed so interested, but then I didn't hear from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - dear cupid, last week, i met this guy in my history class at college. he's 22, and i'm about to turn 19. he's the one who introduced himself first, and then, he asked me for my number. it couldn't have been five minutes before he texted me, and w...

Will he think I'm trying to buy his love?

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29 September 2010 (F) - ive just started seeing this guy.. hes really sweet soo caring.. sensitive and just perfect. i really like him and hes really into me.. theres this mens perfume that he really likes and wants to get.. and he says hes gunna ask his cousin...

Am I gay or am I going through a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Hey am 15 .. I know most people would say am confused .. But i need help ! I find girls attractive at times but guys too. At the same time i would choose a girl over a guy. To be honest i don't even like the look of the " the third leg" i don't ev...

I am not sure how to tell my parents about my 10 years older than me boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Okay this is going to sound odd at first but im 19 and my bf is 29. I will be 20 next month. He just turned 29. I am not one for age if its reasonable like this....but how am I suppose to tell my parents? I dont want them to judge me or him....

Boyfriend expects me to have sex with him he's 14 I'm 15!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Im 15 years old,and im having problems with my boyfriend last night he asked me what my bases are and i told him and now he wants to have sex with me! he is a year younger than me too! I love him and i dont want to break up with him cause that will ...

Should I tell my parents about my secret boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - okay i am going to uni next week and i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years my paretns don't know i havent told them because there is a 9 year age gap i am 18 he is almost 28 we are in love but iam wondering if i shold decide to tell my ...

Is it okay to pull away from the person you think loves you to test them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I never thought I would consider “testing” my boyfriend, but here I am dealing with some doubts that are driving me to seek action. My first boyfriend of over 1.5 years is by all initial impressions a great guy. We share the same values, respect ...

I can't keep playing off these 2 guys!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I Have a boyfriend who i have been with for 18 months , and he has been there for me through hard times. My family do like him. However as im only 17 , we went on a break because i really needed space , i didnt want to be tied down to just one boy....

No dating experience and I don't know how to set up the next date

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29 September 2010 (F) - Hi there, jst a uick question. I have recently started seeing this amazing guy, we met up on a few nights out and then he asked me out to dinner. He asked for my ideas but i told him i wanted him to decide. we had an amzing night and are both ...

My lovelife doesn't seem to be going anywhere. Why?

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29 September 2010 (M) - Hi everyone =)... Just feeling a little lonely, aaaaand my lovelife hasn't particularly gone anywhere for a while... and I mean a loooong time. I've only had 2 girlfriends, one I had three years ago for two years (she never wanted physical co...

I'm not his mom! How can I get him to see that?

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29 September 2010 (F) - How can I make my boyfriend realise that his mum is trying to paint me as her, because my boyfriend has never loved before till he met me, didn't want to move from the area he lived before, didn't want to share a house. Now he is, and she can see he ...

Is he capabale of settling down with me?

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29 September 2010 (F) - Am abit confused, my bf and i both love each other so much bt he is reluctant with life. he has a job, doesnt pay rent, has enough savings in the account but wont use any of it to upgrade his lifestyle. he mostly spends it on drinking and partyng. ...

Is this going in the direction I'm hoping it is?

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29 September 2010 (F) - Engaging guy I met online. I made the first move and he responded. The emails within the online dating website have been consistent. One morning he emailed me providing me with his work email address which shows his full name, and he wrote feel free ...

Questions about sex and boys.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Does it hurt when a girl has sex for the first time? And are boys attracted to girls with big butts or unattracted?...

Can anyone decipher what he is saying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - A friend of mine and I have been exchanging sms and chats for sometime now. Recently I suggested that we meet for lunch, and added in jest ' unless you prefer dinner' to which he replied ' Either is fine !..I am not scared of you " I just didn't ...

Is there a chance for us? Or is it over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy since June, and over the last month we have gotten very very couply. We started in a space of course where we both could date others, though he never did that, and I did, which he know. So over the last month, he's been ...

Is there a cure for my indecisiveness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Ok I have known two wonderful guy "A" business man and "B"a doctor which i just knew...this two relationship is a long distance relationship. "A" i have knew him like around for a month and we so madly in loved with each other but he is always so ...

Why am I so confused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Okay, so I started talking to this guy Travis last year around february. He was in one of my classes and was really into me. We hung out on the weekends almost every night going to parties and stuff. We also studied together for class a lot. ...

Why does this girl freeze up around me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - There's this girl I like...a lot. I notice her staring and smiling at me when she thinks I can't see her. She also makes long eye contact with me without saying anything. When I talk to her she seems shy and submissive. She fidgets (such as...

How do I get a satisfying love life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - I turn 32 years old in a month and I've had three relationships, lasting from 2 weeks to 3 months and two one-night stands. The last was 6 months ago after a 5 year dry spell. Is this a sign of serious trouble? I definitely feel unsatisfied with ...

Confused if I like an old friend!

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29 September 2010 (M) - Ok, so I met an old friend a couple of days ago, that I haven`t seen in 2 to 3 years. And ever since Friday I haven`t stopped thinking about her, I`m just wondering if this could be just that I`m happy to see her after all this time or if just ...

How can I break it to a grown man that he needs to stop shoving his tongue down my throat?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Yes, yes. I'm sure this has been asked many times. I tried searching previous posts, but only found little girls asking questions and, frankly, found nothing entirely relevant to my problem. Sorry if this is seemingly redundant! So, now for my...

Is his demeanor and arousal a weakness or strengh?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - If a guy gets a hard on when he's sitting with a girl and they are currently just friends (neither appears more attractive than the other), yet he continues talking like he doesn't need anything from her (not needy)...... Does she feel she has power ...

How can I get my boyfriend to come onto me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - how do i get my boyfriend to come on to me? its been 3 weeks since he has even tried to have sex with me and when i try he shoves me away and makes up excuses all the time when i bring it up! so what do i do?...

We can not go on like this... right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating a separated man for over a year. We knew each other casually for 3 years prior to dating. He asked me to lunch one day and told me he was divorcing and suggested we go out. I reluctantly began dating him, although I clearly ...

Does this man like me more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I am trying not to read into this, but I have some questions that need some outside input. I have this guy friend who I think has been flirting with me. He always gives me a high five when we see each other. He gave me a nickname and he always ...