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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I've been seeing a this guy for a few months now and about 5 weeks ago we starting having sex. The first time we had sex it was great - he is very confident and totally unselfish in bed. The first night we had sex a few times with no problems although it did seem to take him a long time to climax - longer than previous men i have slept with - which is good because my last boyfriend didnt last long enough! Anyway the second time we spent the night together - we had sex once and then the second time i noticed he wasnt quite as hard and he lost his erection. He apologised and just laughed it off and ended up giving me oral sex. We've slept together on about 5 occasions now and each time after about 2 times he seems to get the erection problem. It seems to be worse when i get on top. I'm now paranoid about getting on top because i think its going to cause him to go flacid! Its a real passion killer when it happens! I've started to feel that maybe he doesnt fancy me or soemthing seeing as it takes him so long to orgasm and he seems to have to be really rough for it to happen. Now i wish i had the same problem as my last boyfriend ie premature ejaculation. My boyfriend is 40 next year - so maybe its an age thing, my previous boyfriend was 27 so you cant really compare. Anyway would b nice to get peoples opinions on this x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010): He may have a condition called retarded ejaculation. Google it. It can happen by masturbating irregularly. He won't then be able to ejaculate through intercourse. You want to ask him if he has this problem. He is likely aware of it. Stop having sex for like 2 weeks, no masturbation for him...see what happens when he is really horny.
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reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (8 September 2010):
thats why they make viagra it just happens when you get older it has nothing to do with you also i notice if guys wack off too much it effects how they climax he can move his hand faster than you can move your body also if hes masterbated that day its harder for him to ejaculate especially at his age
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