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Dating: Help and advice

He says we'll never be together again, so why does he still have photos of us kissing on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - he told me he still has feelings for me. but their mixed feelings. he still has photos of us kissing on fb but he sais we will never go out again. all i can say is wtf? yes he has been on fb since the break up and yes he has changed his about me on ...

How do I get over my past hurts in order to let him in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I'm afraid this is another one of those insecurity questions that you must get plenty of... I've been in multiple relationships now and have tried my very hardest to be a good parter to them. It's just that I always seem to be hurt in the long...

How do I get him to look at me like he used to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - theres this guy in my class that i really like.we always make eye contact and he smiles.i got a new hair style and when i came back he smiled and said that he liked it alot. But now he has a girlfriend and he hasnt really made any eye contact with ...

He is married now but wont leave me alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - He's married now, why wont he leave me alone? ive tried and tried but i give in, i love him sooooooo much and know that he has a wife now, but he keeps coming and coming, i keep letting him, what do i do when the love is so strong for a married man, ...

I used to fancie a guy who's now my best friend but I love him now what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - before you read this sorry about the amount of writng but i felt it needed explaining in full: about a year ago i had a crush on a boy who was friends with a couple of my best friends so i asked him out and he rejected me, but its been nearly 1 an...

Any tips on how to communicate with your partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend of one year and his at collage,our problem is that we are struggling to communicate,i need a solution...

Does she want to start things up again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

3 September 2010 (M) - This girl told me that we shouldn't be anything at all we went out a while back but now she's apologized for being a jerk. We've startd texting just a little. there's nothing wrong with a sex buddy but how do I know whether that's what she wants or ...

Did she actually like me? Or was it just a dare? Have I missed my chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (M) - I really like this girl and I thought she liked me too but one day one of my friends who is quite close with her ( I think he likes her) told me she was going to say she likes me but it's a dare coz everyone was joking we were practically going out. ...

I've been secretly dating an older guy. Should I tell my parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - i really like this older guy and we have been secretly together for the past 7 months but my sadly i am not allowed to date. should i tell my parents? how do i keep this older guy interested in only me and no other girl?...

I want lots of sex but unfortunately my partner doesnt!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I want lots of sex but unfortunately my partner doesnt! I lost my virginity at 24. The first time wasn't great and neither was the second time...but then it just kept getting better and better and now I'm hooked! However, my partner who is in his ...

How do I give off the right vibes for my date tomorrow?

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3 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I need some advice on how to create the right vibe when I meet up with a guy I like for a lunch date tomorrow. I want him to realise that I potentially like him as more than a friend. What should I wear? How should I behave? Any flirting ...

He keeps asking me to sleep with him but I'm underage!

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3 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 20 and i'm 15. He's been asking me to sleep with him (using a condom) each time we fool around, touch and kiss. He's been asking me this every time we meet. I want to have sex with him but am having doubts about it! I LOVE him ...

Why is it taking him so long to get off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years! When we had sex he would come right away but recently when we have sex he takes a really long time to come or sometimes doesnt even come! Is he cheating, just not attracted to me anymore or what ...

If you saw a 46 year old man and a 17 year old girl holding hands or kissing in public how would you react??

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - My first love is 46, we've been seeing each other for a year now and we're both complete opposites but get on so well. We've cried together laughed together and he waited 4 months before we had sex. If you didn't know anything about the people...

I'm scared of going into a new relationship...

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3 September 2010 (?) - I'm scared of getting into a new relationship. My last one was about 6 months ago but we didnt last because i didnt like him, i had broken up a month before with my greatest "lovey"(alejandro) (: i realy liked alejandro and i still do or is it ...

What signals do I need to give off to show him I want to be more than friends?

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3 September 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd love your opinions on whether this sounds like a date to you (I'm out of practice with all this kinda stuff; been single for 9 months after splitting with my bf of 8 years after he cheated): cute, kind, funny guy at work (not in my dept), ...

At the risk of getting pregnant...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl, well almost 17 now. I was kind of wondering if you could help me by telling me what things could actually put me at risk to get pregnant. I mean i have a bf and dont want to do anything with him that i may regret ...

Playing long distance tug of war...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year. I've recently graduated and moved to another city. I know he loves me but We are constantly arguing, I think the distance is mostly to blame. But at the same time, whenever we fall out I fe...

He's been done twice for being drunk under the influence yet he drove my car home DUI again!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - well my boyfriend did something really stupid - he has two dui's and he still drank and drove home last night, i got reallllly upset seeing that he was driving my car and that a third dui will land him in jail for 1 year. should i have gotten so ...

I'm having problems giving my boyfriend a nickname!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I'm having problems giving my boyfriend a nickname and I don't want it to be too common but I don't it be really weird......

He's totally different now that he's started college...

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3 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years and now we share a 9 month child . But now everything is different ever since he started going to college. He doesn't call me in his breaks, he ignores my text messages and his a totally different ...

Should I... or should I not?

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3 September 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for 2 years. Lately I've been fantasizing and having sex dreams about this guy .I think this guy is really attractive. Me and this guy have talked about hanging out but I know where that leads to but he has a girlfriend and I ...

What's the correct etiquette when couples go clubbing together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, What's the correct etiquette when couples go clubbing together? Like do you dance with people of the opposite sex, how far can you go? If my boyfriend was dancing very close to a girl (like bodies touching), is that acceptable? I've...

Am I wrong to complain about my boyfriend's daily drinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I have been going out with my BF for just over 2 years. Practically every day after work he goes to the pub soemtimes for a couple and sometimes alot more. I seem to be waiting for him to come out of the pub all the time. He says he's coming over ...

Is my boyfriend taking me for granted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (M) - Is my bf taking me for granted? Haven't seen him since tuesday (well wed morning but all i did was drop him off to work). It's friday night and i texted him asking when I can see him next. He responded with "I don't know... I have a...

He's changed! Why is he acting so suspicious now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I'm so confused and hope you can "help". My man, lets say is a contractor for a city agency who he is required to visit 1-2 times daily to retrieve paperwork. (He does have guy friends who work there) Well, in the last few...

Switching Up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

3 September 2010 (?) - This is a really complicated situation for me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and four months. [I'm 21 and he's 29] At a certain point in our relationship he told me that he would like to marry me one day even though we'r...

I've moved on with another guy and I'm happy. My ex won't stop calling me and telling me he loves me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I used to date this kid Mike but he dumped me two weeks after we started. I was sad but had another guy Adam who was there for me. So after talking to this guy Adam who talked to me for a month. We started dating and im so happy with him. Yet mikes ...

Should I ask my friend if I can date his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (M) - i like a girl but im good friends with her ex. i dont know if i should ask her out or ask my friend for permisson. (she is hot, slim, fit, smart and cute...

What is this situation? I'm so confused and feel so wrong! (sex problem)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I feel like crap.... Okay here is the situation: I have a girlfriend and she has a brother. I love her dearly and been with her for about 10 years. Well we have been fighting a lot and her mother wanted to kick me out because of our arguing. ...

Should I avoid the picnic my ex might be attending?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I've been broken up w/my boyfriend for about a week or so and I've been invited to go to a Labor Day Picnic on Saturday. All the advise I hear is stay away and if he wants to call he will, but should I attend a party that he MIGHT be at? He has his ...

We've been together four months, he told me he loves me, but is not in love with me yet. What does this actually mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend four months we spend every day together and have moved in together,i live with him at his mothers house,all is great and im happier than ive ever been.i can see that my boyfriend cares for me and that he loves me.your ...

Any advice on getting back into the dating scene after a twenty year marriage?

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3 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid I don't know how to get back onto the dating scene. I've been married for over 20 years (I married really young) and my husband and I are got a divorce a few months ago that I don't regret. I've found an old flame (well after ...

Help please - really rocky time

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3 September 2010 (F) - Help please - I'm churning inside. My Partner and I are in a very difficult situation. We have been together two years, and it was a big deal for both of us to start a new relationship in our fifties. We didn't rush into it and were committed to ...

He doesn't tell me that he loves me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - Ive been dating this guy for awhile now, and he seems too realli like me, cause he wants too see me everyday, n he as already presented me too all his closes friends,,, n we have already had sex. Now the problem is that he still hasnt told me he ...

Still have the hots for a doctor I seen 6 years ago

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - This is going to sound odd but I can't get my mind off it. 6 years ago my grandmother was taken ill to hospital and me and my mum stayed with her whilst all the tests were done. The doctor she had was a really nice guy and (innapropriate I...

Why does he keep bringing up the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (?) - okay i dont know no more.. i mean my x and i dont see each other as x's ... how ever everytime were together he brings up the past i mean it doesnt bother me i just get confused by the way he looks at me and because he bring up the past.. i dont ...

Why do girls never look at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (M) - Why do girls NEVER look at me? At work, when I'm out, my mate's friends, sister's friends, whoever. No girl seems to give me a glance, or at least they don't want me to catch them glancing. Some look and when I see them they look away. Is this ...

She's having a hard time should I send her flowers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

3 September 2010 (M) - This girl I like just went back to college and she is having a hard time and I think I should send her some flowers to show her I care about what she is going through and I care about her wellbeing and it might send the message I like her more than ...

How can I get him to see what I see in him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I know this guy who I like and likes me, he's really nice and good looking, but he's really insecure! he's not insecure about his apearence, but more so himself as a person... how can I get him to see what I see in him?...

Trying to relate to my g/f's son

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3 September 2010 (M) - Gonna get straight to the point here. My girlfriend has a small boy aged 2, who I think the world of, but, I'm incredibly shy around him. I have got a lot better around him but I find it very hard to talk to him when anyone else is around, I just ...

I don't like kissing, and can't see ever liking it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I'm a 19 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Recently, I started talking to a boy who works across the street from me and I've gone on a few dates with him. He and I share a lot of the same interests and get along well, but I am not enjoying ...

I have dated this girl for four months: update

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

3 September 2010 (M) - I dated this girl for four months update she texted a guy while on a date with me a month ago and lied anout it but admitted to the lie the next day. I messaged the guy last Friday and told him that I was dating her and he said he had been dating h...

Tall woman with a shorter man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - At 5' 11" I am a very tall woman that usually wears heels for work purposes that easily put me over 6'2. A couple of weeks ago while on my lunch break I walked over to the Book store to browse around and noticed this cute shorter guy eying the ve...

Thought we'd had a good start, but haven't heard from her

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3 September 2010 (M) - Hey everyone i'm 22, here's the deal. The last girl i was involved in before now was in 2005, the less said about that the better. Anyway that's long gone, and i've been talkng to this girl who's the same age as me for a month or two now (actually ...

I feel uncomfortable dating!

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3 September 2010 (F) - hi, i'm 19, a virgin and never had a bf. i've always had small flings (if even that) that have just never kicked off the ground. i always moan about being the only single one all the time, but the moment any guy ever shows any interest in me, i for ...

Am I just convenient for him?

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3 September 2010 (F) - I feel hurt by this coment but am i over reacting to it. I have been seeing this guy for over 5yrs now and while i love him dearly he does'nt love me,he's fond of me i know but i don't feel any love from him.he's always txting me everyday without ...

4 guys, do I just wait for one of them to make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - I am 21 years old. I'm in my fourth year of college and life is going pretty good right now. I feel good about the direction my life is going and I'm ready for anything. Everything feels perfect, except one thing. Well, three things that is. Thre...

Guy is now talking with his ex..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - Okay, I really don't know where to turn here, so I'm hoping someone can help me. I'm 22 years old, and talking to someone who is 27. We have been talking for about 2 months or so. Its a short time, but we've bonded so fast and see each other ...

It never goes further than a few dates. It makes me feel so down.

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3 September 2010 (F) - hey, im 19 and feel im going to along forever. i go on dates with boys but it never goes futher than that. i dont know whats wrong with me, or what im doing wrong. everyine around me are getting together or metting new boys/girls and making a ...