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Dating: Help and advice

My head is melted with a decision that I have to make, Can you you help me please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - Any answers will be deeply appreciated from the bottom of my heart. Dear Cupid, I am with my girl for 3 years. We had a lil break up about 2 months back and she started texting a "friend" right away. She sent him pictures and videos and whatever,...

He has gotten distant after I asked him if we were in a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - What if I texted a guy and said "just saw you"...and he replyed... "yea."... so i replyed .. "yeah"... then that was it.. then two days later... he saw me and said "just saw you what you doing"... so I said "yeah" and he said "yea lol".... Is he ...

What should I do this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - I have been friends wit this girl for over 2 year and for the last year i am so clear on how i feel about her . she is all i seem to think about. I have told her i care about her deeply as more than a friend her response to this was i have been hurt ...

I've never had a girlfriend, is there something wrong with me?

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6 September 2010 (M) - I'm 25 years old (nearly 26) and I've never had a girlfriend at all. Is there something wrong with me? I have been on dating sites (got rejected on those), I get rejected by women a lot (I never said anything nasty, disrespectful and so on to anyon...

My self esteem is shattered because my friend gets all the attention!

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6 September 2010 (F) - Ive searched this site and cannot find any relevant advice for the dilema that i am in. I really love my best friend shes a really nice girl and very supportive and very pretty. When we go out to parties and clubs all the guys are interest...

All I want is him, I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - when i was in year 10, i fell pretty much head over heels with this guy in the year above. he told me i was beautiful, that he'd never hurt me. but a month or so later after saying how much he liked me, he said he wasn't ready for a relation...

I rebounded and now how do I tell him I am not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I broke up my boyfriend of 10 and a half months about 2 months ago. I was totally in love with him and it broke my heart. I've been trying to get over it, but it's been really hard. Last night I went out with a guy I knew from before and it ...

I want to be his girlfriend someday, whats the next step?

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6 September 2010 (F) - I know its a typical start to a story, but: Theres this guy at school that I really really like. I've liked him for quite a while now and I did tell him that I liked him but then he apologised and said he was in a complicated realtionship. He...

I'm afraid to talk to him incase I was wrong about him!

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6 September 2010 (F) - Hi! okay, so i'll set the scene here: i'm a freshman in highschool, and we're 2 weeks into the school year. i'm in marching band with a boy who i really like. i've been practicing night and day in marching band for 3 months now, and i know what he ...

How can I get her trust back?

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6 September 2010 (M) - So this is all my fault, but my girlfriend and I have been having huge trust issues cause i lied about talking to and old friend who was a girl, and she asked me not to talk to another girl but her. Kinda weird for my age? We've been dating for 6 ...

When someone says they are thinking of you, opinions please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - When someone says they are or have been thinking of you is it considered: 1) friendly 2) relationship material or 3) quit making a big deal of it? I don't want to go into details in my case, I want to see other people's opinions and their...

Does he just have problems showing that he loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - i recently started having sex with my boyfriend at first it felt good but since that i have been very emotional and confused i really love him but it feels like he doesnt feel the same because he doesnt say he loves me and when we go out with mates ...

Is it normal to feel as though you're not going to find a good person to be with?

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6 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 18 and I feel as thought i'm not going to find a good guy to be with. I know you're probably thinking that i'm young and i shouldnt be worrying about boys right now because i should just be having fun with my friends and enjoying ...

He has a girlfriend but tells my friends he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - im so confused. ive known this guy for about a year now, weve slowly become better friends, hung out in groups of friends alot, never alone. over the past couple of months things between us got a lil more flirty, all innocent though, then i found ...

Should he pay for the trip? is he using me?

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6 September 2010 (F) - I'm 17, 18 in a few months, I have been talking to this guy in Washington since around April, he is 20. Anyway he wants me to come over to see him, hes in college and drinks a lot he says, my life is pretty bad at home right now and I see it as the ...

Does he want more than just sex?

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6 September 2010 (F) - i met this guy on a dating site.. we emailed me we've been talking on BlackBerry chat for about 6weeks now. hes different from any other guy ive met. hes sensitive, smart, caring, funny and handsome. we talk about everything a...

How do I get him to be serious about his decision?

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6 September 2010 (F) - My ex starting dating some girl when we broke up. And now he wants to get back together, not just rush back into things but he says he wants to be by himself and work towards us at the same time. We've already talked about it and agreed that he ...

Did I deserve to be slapped in the face?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - Ok where to start ... Me and my boyfriend have been together 3 and a half years and last weekend (4th september) we went out with friends for my birthday. There was 3 of my friends and one of his. We had all drunk far too much and my boyfrien...

Trouble in the trenches of drinking/love

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6 September 2010 (M) - Hey, Is being drunk an excuse? Is using it as an excuse a cop out or proof that someone else has less feelings for you. If you were in a situation that merited action or confronting someone about it and they used it as an excuse what would you d...

How long can a man stay mad? Will he ever call me back or is it his way to say it's over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - The man I love (dating for 3 months..) isn't talking to me anymore since Wednesday because of an argument over the phone. This argument shouldn't have taken place at all. It was stupid and I should have realized he was going through a lot of stress ...

Help! How can I stop becoming so wet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for well over a year, before anyone starts going all judgemental on me- I've had my hands down his pants, he's had his hands down mine. No biggie... Just lately, he's been commenting on how wet I am down there, and how ...

The memory of this other guy and what could have been is killing me slowly, how do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I dated a guy last year for a few weeks and he dumped me, saying he wasn't ready for a relationship. I thought this was a bs excuse. But I fell hard for him and still think about him even though I have a boyfriend now. I found out the other day th...

I don't know if I can copy with his strange fetishes!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I need some advice, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and i dont know what to do. we have what you could say a healthy sex life as we have it every day, at least once but he is also into a lot of sexual fetishes which confuses me. he has a ...

Do people who are meant to be together always find their way back to each other?

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6 September 2010 (F) - Do you guys on DearCupid belive that people that are meant to be together always find their way back in the end? x x x...

Coould he possibly love me after all the time we've been together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - Guys: Why would you not love someone after one year of liking them and 7 months of dating. For the first 6 months we only made out it never went further. He wasn't 100% for it but respected my wishes. But all he can still say is I really like you ...

Why does he still flirt with me so much when we've broken up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - So i dated this guys for a couple months and i knew him for a couple months before we started dating to. we broke up about a year ago but still talk after that and we are still friends. when he texts me he always says he misses me and when i hang ...

Is there a chance at all that she'll genuinely come to trust and love me the way she used to...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been working on trying to get back together a week or so after a breakup. During the breakup we decided it'd be best if we stayed friends, but we started missing each other a lot so we started giving it another try. But th...

How can I get her to initiate sex more?

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6 September 2010 (M) - Hi - I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months. When we first started our relationship we had sex frequently, however, recently we only have it once a week. This is partly due to me working away during the week, however, my girlfriend doesnt ...

How can I get my parents to let me stay over at this party?

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6 September 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and he is havin a party at his house in january for his 19th birthday. his parents will be there and all his family and only a few friends so there wont be any drunk people everywhere. My boyfriend really wants me to ...

She gave off signals like she was single but the whole time she had a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - I feel so betrayed and being used, my world fell apart from one moment to another and my heart is in pain. Not a long while ago i met this girl we had excellent eye contact and i got into a conversation with her in a really good way , then we became ...

I don't know how to act around this guy I like

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I need some advice on how to act around this guy that I really really like. We know each other a little through work. He asked me out last week, went out, he was sweet, attentive, polite, held my hand in the film, kissed me on the cheek at the ...

A player vs a non player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4991 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - How can you tell if a guy is a player? I've been out with a guy from work, and he seems almost too good to be true, handsome, funny, intelligent and sooo sweet. The kinda guy where you can't understand why he is single (which he is). But I know ...

It was all a game and I fell for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I cant talk to friends or family about this or i will never live it down. Just a little background. I am 44 single mom of 2 kids, when they were younger i got burned bad in a relationship and vowed to wait until they were out of the house to avoid ...

Some guy kissed her

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6 September 2010 (M) - guys i neeed help pleaaaase.. my girlfriend just told me a guy in her class kissed her while they were on a break.but she didnt kiss him back she said it all happened in 1 second!! they were talkin and he just kissed her :S i dont know what t...

I need to always have attention from men

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I have a need to always have attention from men. No matter what I am doing, or who I am with I feel like I must be the center of every man's attention in the room. It could be guys I know or complete strangers. I don't even care what they look ...

What do women want in a person?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - Good evening, Dear Cupid community: In my experience, there comes a question that men often ask: What do women want? The reason I post this question, is because some of these questions I see here in the community stem from this. There seems to b...

Do guys like girls that act like they aren't into them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - Do guys like the nice girls or do guys like the ones who will say no and wait and hour to text them back or just pretend that they arent really that into them?...

Is she showing me what she's got?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - I have this female friend that I think has been kinda showing me what she's got. I see her everyday and the past couple days she's been wearing these short shorts and when she sits down you can see up her shorts. I've noticed lately that when ever ...

I'm in love and confused...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - Ok, so how can this man I love so much, hold me and at his own will profess all his love and caring and say how happy we are together and couldnt imagine life without me, suddenly just a little bit later same day insult me? Help, I am confused!...

How do you trust again after you've been used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - Having come out of an LTR at the beginning of the year I felt ready to date again. I've recently moved and so everything was a new start. I went online dating and was messaged by someone very unlike my previous girlfriends and after lots of emails ...

How do I start a same sex relationship???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4991 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - i am clear about my sexual orientation, i am bi, yes, it finally hit me; hard. I've had many boyfriends, i know how the system works, but around a year ago i found out i was attracted to girls. naturally i assumed this was just part of teenage ...