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female
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anonymous
writes:ok i'm going through some seriouse hard times right now, i'm a muslim but i'm in love with a christian we, secretly dated each other for six months then i told my parents, before i told my parents i told my boyfreind that my parents were never going to let us be, he said he would become muslim for me but then he became stuck with the idea that he will never change religion. My father threatend to kill both of us if i ever got pregnant from him without us being married, i intruduced him to my father and my dad made it clear to him that if he did not become muslim he could never have me. whenever I tried seing him behind their back i got caught and then they made me choose. i chose them!He is currently my ex, he said if i wanted him i would have to move out. i'm torn between both sides what should i do ?
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reader, gigolojone  +, writes (9 September 2010):
 It is very selfish of your parents to ask you to choose between them and your boyfriend.
I should also add that love is not about religion but rather mutual love,trust ,understanding and happiness.
We should not be marrying religion but rather marrying the people we love and they love us back.
To be honest,at your age,you are not yet ready to make a life time decision such as marriage,so i suggest you best stick with your parents and who knows,your ex might not be the one meant for you after all because i believe more and your people are yet to come into your life.
Imagine walking out on your parents,running off with him...probably they disown you as their child and later on this guy turns his back on you or his ways and attitude change.......you will be at cross roads with nowhere to run to.
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