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Dating: Help and advice

Love too soon???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Here’s my story.. Four months ago, I married my girlfriend of two years. A month later, I found out that she is cheating on me. I was a wreck for a month. And then I met this girl. We have so many things in common - whether it be our inter...

I'm feeling very vunerable and needy for somebody!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - In the past year I have lost all my friends to university (they are all far away) and generally drifting away/poor effort to stay in contact. Then 6 months ago i found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me for months and I ended it with him. ...

My friend might think I'm self centered, help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - So my friend really likes this guy and never stops talking about him! Like it's always about him, and it's kinda annoying. When I mentioned something to her about her being all obsessed I guess you would call it, she got mad. She told me that I did ...

Mixed signals? He's so hard to figure out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Ok so I met this guy at school and I've liked him ever since school started back(3 weeks ago).He was dating one of my friends at the time so when they broke up he knew one of my other friends and she got us talking.It turns out he's really funny and ...

We need eachother to move on, opinions please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - me and him are just likely as a friend, coincidentally, both of us just get dump by our boyfriend/girlfriend.. so we think we need each other to move on.. after knowing him for about a week n days, on the few time(2 or 3) of our meeting,we alrea...

Is this a test?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for a couple of months now. Sometimes if we go out for a meal she will comment on a woman and say she looks pretty and she tells me to have a look. I really dont like doing that while I am with her because I dont w...

Stressed in South Carolina

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (?) - I'm married, but not happily. A few months ago I met a woman at a large gathering of mutual friends and we ended up spending the night together. She had been in a long relationship that had ended recently. She wasn't dumped, per se, but she ...

Want out but I'm weak

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - hey ppl.i really have to let my bf go but i cant.how do i move on?he doesnt call me or anything yet i just had his baby last month.he hasnt seen her at all but when i cal he acts like he wna b with us til death.i luv him but i want out.but how?...

Should I let him go or fight for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - so my bestfriend and i both like the same guy. i know its so original, but i need help. the other night, i he told me he liked us both but that he liked my friend more. i knew that it was coming so i just gave up. i told him that he should be with ...

A question for the guys!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I read about this "guy psychology" thing a bit ago, and I was wondering if it's true or just a load of crap.. So guys, please tell me this.... Lets say you have a girlfriend. She's amazing, sweet, kind, affectionate, funny, cute etc. B...

I like this guy but my friend likes him to, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (?) - i have this problem i like this guy alot i told him his one of my friends i wanna get with him but he's kinda a player an goes out with one of my homegurlz an i dont wanna hurt her by gettin with him but im not sure i should get with him becuz hes ...

I like this guy, but I don't know if he likes me..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - and I dk if he likes me back. When older ladies see us together, they tell me that he really likes me because his eyes light up and he gives me his undivided attention. Yet, sometimes in his conversations he gives a physically description of the ...

My ex girlfriend, I need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - hey my x girlfriend and i broke up a month ago we were together for about a year we had a really close relationship hanging out every day and never got tired of eachother i loved her to death she was the first real girlfriend i cared about so much ...

Love of my life, getting back together with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - So here it goes gang. Long time reader, first time poster. I recently had a strange even unfold. First I will give some back history. I dated this amazing girl for about 2 and a half years. She is a grade younger than me (only 6 months in age ap...

Torn between husband and boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Two years ago my husband left me. After he left I started talking to my ex boyfriend from 20 yrs ago. Ue lives in another country. Last year i lost my job and I am back with my husband. our relationship is very platonic but not marital. On the other ...

My girlfriend doesn't say I love you anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - I think my gilfriend is scared. She's acting cold on the phone and not saying I love you anymore, she used to say it 10 times a day for months :). She just moved to my country to be with me for the winter but shes studying in a town thats not too ...

We had a promising first date but now she barely replies to my texts, what is going on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - Hello out there, So I had a very promising first date last week. We went to have dinner and we chatted with each other for about three hours. After our date was over I walk her to her subway stop, she then says I wish you didn't have to work tom...

Caught in the middle of a love triangle: My partner is in love with me and the mother of his children!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Dear readers, I'm presently caught in the mids of a love triangle. the guy that I'm in love with is in love with two women. This was not suppose to happen because she is his long time family friend from childhood. They both got married to other...

Man with mixed up feelings....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - i meet a woman that has same intrest as me and we get along great. we dated for 3 mths and she left me a few days ago. she told her mom and friends that she has never been with anyone as good to her as i am. she went back to her ex who mistreated ...

Why are his parents so over protective towards us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I am 16 and almost 17. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now. I want a baby and so does he... but his parents say and tell use that we cant do anything till were out of college and a lot older. WE are not allowed to do anything, we ...

Do I leave him alone and cut him out of my life or do I pursue this "friendship"???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - This is kinda long so bear with me guys... I'm a gay man and I've been in a fantastic relationship with my partner for over a year and a half and he decides he wants to end it all of a sudden because of a lack of physical feelings after a month lo...

Mediocre sex... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - So i've been seeing this guy for quite some time now and i honestly love him, but the sex isnt as good as i imagined, hes about 5-6 inches but i just dont get pleasure unless he slams into me. what can i do to make things better, or even what do i ...

My boyfriend takes ages to cum!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend takes ages to cum. We are 16 and lost our virginities to each other. I've heard guys first times last like.. 30 seconds, he was more like 30 minutes! And now he lasts up to 2 hours inside me! I enjoy the sex, but Im just VERY ...

Boyfriend not pushing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I'm in my third year of college. My boyfriend should also be where I am but before he met me he was not taking his school serious. so he dropped out. Now he sits around, surfs the web hoping to find work (which I think Is pure lazyness) Recently I ...

Help! Is he still in love with his ex wife?

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21 September 2010 (F) - I was dating a single man who has 3 children 21 yrs, 19 yrs and 16 yrs. After about 6 mths of dating. The ex wife decided to visit their family house often because the children live with their father and refuses to visit the mother because she left...

Why does he type my name in his texts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Ok this is going to be a little short but I'm very curious of this. When ever me and my boyfriend text eachother, he'll say my name in every text (10 times out of the 34 he sent). Sometimes it'll be a little more often than that and I was just ...

Should I go ahead and have sex with this guy when he doesn't want a serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I'm stuck and need advice, I have never had a proper boyfriend and I am in my late 20s, I just never feel attracted to anyone or if I do they never feel the same. I feel for someone at work and he said he was interested in me but doesn't want...

Should I go for a new relationship or fight for my ex and I to get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I broke up with my one year and a half boyfriend who, I’m not gonna lie, was kind of an asshole. The thing is, our relationship was just amazing and super passionate ( when he wasn’t acting like a beeetch ). So when I broke up with him he f***ing ...

After cancelling a date due to illness, should I be the one to make the next move? Or should I wait for him to ask me out again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Can anyone help me please with a quick dating etiquette question? I cancelled a date as I was unwell and now I'm wondering if I should be the one to make the next move and invite him out or if I should I wait to see if he asks me again? I don't want ...

How do I find that spark again?

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21 September 2010 (M) - Only once in my life have I had any significant emotional connection with a woman I've been with. I've been with several women but when we kiss I feel nothing magic, just lips moving. Some very faint connections, and a few light sparks every onc...

Does the fact that we had more intimate sex mean he has actual feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Hey, there's a saying that says "actions speak louder than words"....how true is that? The reason I'm asking is because this guy I used to be involved with earlier this year is a lot more affectionate and intimate in bed than he EVER used to be....

How can I stop acting this way so I can show how I actually feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Last night I said something really silly to my boyfriend which I think came across as me not wanting much of a commitment with him. This is far from the truth - in fact he is the only guy who has ever felt right to me. Every other guy I've dated ...

Confused about email from ex-girlfriend and if we have a chance to reunite

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - Hey. I have been dating a girl for 2 years in a long distance relationship (lives an hour away) and she recently told me she needed a break. I am in the medical profession and for the last 5 months I have been working in a new job and studying at ...

I have 4 guys after me! what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - This is kind of a long story but I'm gonna try to make it as short as possible. I don't know how but I now have four guys in the equation. Let me talk about the first one. He's my boyfriend, and we've been dating for a little over a month. We had ...

He thinks he can have his cake and eat it too! can we someday rekindle what we had?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - So this summer I started seeing a friend of mine. He always had a girlfriend but we always spoke when we were out. One way to describe him is.. think of the nicest guy in the world- that's this guy! And it was no wonder why we were friends. Then...

Flirty boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - ok well heres the deal. My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 3 months. He's not the best with showing his feelings or pda or really anything. Then there is my "best friend" who he also dated like a year ago. They dated for about 7 months. ...

What gift can I send to my boyfriend in hospital?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Hello Guys, My bf will have a surgery in 2 days.. I was planning to send him flowers to the hospital. Do you think is it good idea sending a guy to flowers to the hospital? or what kind of gift I should send to him considering he will have bypass g...