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Archived questions from: 7 September, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...

Will he give me more time in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for almost 4 months now, and I am really starting to like him. We haven't taken things to the next step to have a title as we both want to take things slow. The problem is with his work and other activities in his life ...

How do I ask my girlfriend if we can have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - I am only 20, yet I've not had sex with my girlfriend before. I want to but I need to know how to say it in order not to be turned down. How do I go about this? I need help....

I have a strong feeling he's lying but I didn't tell him that...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - me and my bf are in a relaition ship of 7 months, i'm christian and he's muslim, he always calls me stupid, he says that all his friends tell him that i'm ugly and he deserves better, he controls what i should say and do. he hate all my friends and ...

I feel I'll never get over this lad...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - hi everyone just a little question.. ive just broken up with my boyfriend and i know it is over between us but why is it i feel like i will never get over this lad and in the back of my mind i have this feeling we will get back together! even t...

Do I need to move on from this guy or wait for him, patiently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of one year and I found each other on a dating web site. He really is not my type but he seemed to be one of the only "normal" guys I had met thus far. Our first date was a concert out of town and it was okay. When we got to my house ...

I really miss my ex boyfriend and want to know how to persuade him to come back to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, recently my boyfriend of two months broke up with me, and I'm absolutely gutted about it :/ I really started to fall hard for him and believe that it was one of the most successful relationships I've had so far. We saw each other very ...

Is he waiting for someone else or just really wants to take things slow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - So, I met this guy at a party and never gave him my number... he searched for me and then asked for my number, we talked for a week and the first time we hung out he tried having sex with me.. I denied him and told him that i thought we were looking ...

Boyfriend is drinking everyday and I am lost here..what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - my boyfriend drinks every day first thing he does is has a beer when he wakes up....just there this evening he vomited for no reason he says it his nose being blocked up making him sick which i don't believe...i have a 2 year old son who dotes on ...

Boyfriend is acting like he's lost interest. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Hello everyone. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. We have a long distance relationship, but we're planning to see each other soon. We still talk over the phone and on web cam. So, lately My boyfriend has been acting ...

Why does he talk to other girls when he says he loves me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I have this boyfriend. I've heard rumors. I've asked him about them, but he denies them. The first time i heard something about him, I asked him, and he said they were just friends. Today, i wake up, and on his status he's talking about a ...

She thinks I 'look' at other girls but I don't! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - hello, my girlfriend thinks that I look at other girls, but i dont either that or im not aware of it, but it puts a real strain on our relationship, what should i say to her and what should i do?...

Feeling guilt about how I want to cheat on my bf..what's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I keep thinking about cheating on my boyfriend and then feeling so guilty afterwards I almost cry. Ive been with him for 3 years and live with him. I do honestly love him and dont know what I would do if I lost him so why do I keep getting tempted? ...

Hugging someone who is so much taller than you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - hi, im about 5 ft 2 and ive recently started dating this guy who is about 6 ft 5 so theres a pretty big height difference there. just wondered if anyone has some suggestions on how to hug him? it sounds kinda weird its just when i give him a hug i ...

Cheated on him with his best friend! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I made thee biggest mistake of my life! I've never had a real relationship up intell this point and I love him with all my heart! I cheated on the only guy I've every really cared about, with his best friend! I know that sounds soo bad! I dont know ...

Cheating girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - I've been dating this girl for four months and i was aware she was a slut by the time i got involved with her but i thought she was going to change as time goes on but she didnt. I use to call her a slut and she kept on telling me that she was not ...

Serious dysfunctional family, need advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I am 19 year old who was taken away as a toddler when I was 3 years old from my biological family (11 children total). The state of Louisiana put me into foster care and I eventually was adopted out. My foster family was slightly dysfunctional at ...

Help me translate what he meant by his comment!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Hey, so I need some help to translate a comment this guy made. I know him through work, he asked me out at the weekend, had a great time, went to a movie. Then asked me out again last night. Again, had a great time. He sent me a text saying ...

I am frightened for her safety!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together nearly 2 years. Unfortunately most of the year we are spent separated by 200 miles. She works in a big city where as I live in the countryside, where we both met and are from. I love her dearly, and she ...

Is she just saying what she thinks I want to hear?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - I have been dating this woman for about 6 months now. I liked her a lot from the beginning but that feeling of love wasnt there at first. Over the last couple of months I have fallen for her more and more. Last week we were lying in bed and I ...

Was her behaviour unacceptable?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - hi , please help me. I met a girl about 4 years back, we met on yahoo messenger chatting room. she is from another country. we kept talking like friends for two months, but after two months i proposed her, and she also accepted. Everything was...

Help! How do I know if my girlfriend is attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - Okay so I have posted two previous questions and got some good answers, all I want to know now is how do I know if my girlfriend is attracted to me? We have been dating for a month and have been really really close for around 5 months, she asked me ...

Boundaries in a relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Question: When in a loving and committed relationship, are there boundaries when it comes to sleeping over somebody of the opposite sex's house alone, even if you are just mates? If your partner is not happy about it but you think it is fine, should ...

Who should propose first... me or her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

7 September 2010 (?) - Hi... Me and my girl are having a good friendship for the past 4 months. We know about each other very well and to be frank I Luv her and I know she Loves me too but we never proposed each other. Should i propose her? What if she denies me? Or s...

He snapped at me and it stung! Why is he like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! Have an issue and any feedback would really be appreciated. I'm 19 and my guy just turned 34. We've been going out 7 months. So we semi-live together, he has an apt. and we'll spend time there, I do laundry, we cook together, clean ...

Help! Do you think I should call him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4948 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Hi there!, i told my bf that i'm going to another province to visit my family, he didn't even says have a nice trip, when i tell him why he didn't even says nothing he says i like fighting beacause i was complaining, but i was just wanted him to ...

There is nothing sexy happening here. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - Hi, everyone. I'm in a situation where there is nothing sexy going on at all. Romance seems to be way out of reach and I really don't remember the last time my girlfriend of ten years and I had sex. It was this year sometime. We have too muc...

My girlfriend has had threesomes in the past and it's eating me up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - Hi all 1st time here and just looking for some advice. I'm with my girlfriend of 10 years. A few years back myself and my girlfriend broke up for a while. During this time she had thresomes, one with two other females and another two with 1 f...

Will I be able to find a better guy who will love me...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Hey Everyone! I'm posting this with lots of hopes in my heart that somebody will definitely answer my question. I'm not able to decide who was right and who was wrong in my past relationship because the end of the story lies undecided at the...

I did everything he wanted, and find out he's seeing another girl

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (?) - My ex boyfriend sent me a text sayin that he misses me and that he loves me so i went to see him he told me he wanted to get back together so i ended up staying with him for the night and we had sex now i really wish we hadnt because the next ...

What if she wants more than I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, I've recently been on here because I was seeking advice with a recent relationship of 4 years. It ended, it hurt but things are moving on slowly. My new question is: I have been more social now that I am single. A friend of a ...

Am I pushing too hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Ok, here it is. I have my sights set on a legitimately busy man. He is a general contractor working on my brothers home. I asked him out, he said yes, asked me to pick a time and day. The day of, he had to cancel for confirmed business related ...

How long do I wait before she leaves her boyfriend to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - Hey, i'm a genuine guy from Australia who fell in love with who i think is the perfect girl for me. I met her on holidays 5 weeks ago and only spent 5 days with her. She was travelling with her best friend both from Slovakia. We spoke of a future ...

How to get a guy to notice you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - what are some really great things to do to get a guy to notice you?...

Playing hard to get--how do you do that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - theres this guy i have a little crush on and i know the key to a guys heart is to be yourself.. but how are some ways to play a little hard to get? you know keep him guessing... ...

I don't understand some of the things he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Ive been dating this guy, for awhile now, uu cud say, and ii kinda realli like him. But there r some things he does, that ii dnt understand what to do. For example, he hasnt told me tat he loves me, he hasnt held my hand in the street, and he hasnt ...

Why do men like shorter women and shy away from tall ones?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I am a 5'7 3/4" female. I'm proud of that quarter inch below 8, because I hate being tall. So guys, honestly, what is the real reason why you flock to short women and pass over the tall ones? Is it because they're cuter and more fragile and make ...

Being called their partner--meaning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - if you are in a long term relationship with someone, and they call you their partner, what does that mean exactly?...

I think he sees me as whore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Ok, I started a relationship with a guy that I have just meet like 2 months ago. He said that he really likes me, I don't really like him like for a boyfriend, but he's really nice with me and seems that we have some things in common si I wanted to ...

Why? What did I do wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I had dated this guy that was five years younger than me, he has two kids and I have two kids, I feel like I gave him my all, he has a cheating problem, around the end of december he lefted me for other chick, however came back in february, this ...

How can I live and make decisions based on a present situation and forget about what happened in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Hey there, I like this guy, I had written in asking about him not too long ago to this site. The problem is that we're friends and I have fallen for friends in the past and I haven't had too much luck with the friends first thing. (Don'...

Argument with boyfirend about marraige plans. Why was he so rude?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Sorry this post is long.plz help and thanks in advance? i am in a comitted ldr relationship..i am 17 and my bf is 18 and we really love each other and we have just completed one year and two months. lately i m still not sure that whether he reall...

Spent a wonderful day with my BF, got emotional, missing him when I got home and parents have completely misunderstood!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Hey everyone; I had a quick question for you all and I'm hoping you can help me and reassure me. This weekend was a blast. On Saturday I got to spend time with my boyfriend at nighttime. Being that it is Labor Day our family decided to go to the ...

Why did he leave me for his ex wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend left me for his "stupid" ex-wife. I was seeing this man for 2 months. We met online and hit it off. He is 43, a respiratory therapist, works nights, makes 75k, and divorce with 2 kids (female 19/12). Everything was great. We never ...

Does my bestfriends brother like me too? or is it just me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - My bestfriends brother is AMAZING! :D He's super cute! the other day in school, he walked up to me and randomly gave me a huge hug. It made my stomach tingle and basically made my day. I am seriously confused. Im confused because::: I dont know what ...

Is she lying to me about the other girl? I need help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - this is kinda tricky, and im in what i would call a problem. One of my friends (female) that we will call F1, gets jealous, and has admited that F2 (also female) always has guys like her more than her, even though they are "best friends". this is ...

Is she giving me the run around because she wants to see what else is out there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me about a month ago. At first she said she needed time, which made me think ok no big deal. I was still sad about it and acted like a hopeless fool, but did give her time. About a week ago she says that were ...

Clueless about girls, How do I gain confidence and how do I know when the right time is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - I've never really been comfortable about sex before. It's always been something I've felt extremely awkward and embarrassed about. I mean, I don't have any problem talking about it with people online, nor do I have any problem watching porn or even ...

She made out with her ex and it turned me on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - A week ago, my girlfriend of almost 2 years and I took a "break", which lasted three days. We both sort of agreed to the break after a series of little fights, though I was the main proponent of the break. We both said we love each other and want to ...

Should I give in to a 3some to make my boyfriend happy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend I been with for almost 3 years now. We are very happy together we have the occasional fight mostly because I am very jealous. I don't want to share him with any one else. He says he doesn't want to be with anyone else. He ...

Shy guy around girls...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - please help me out! i need your advice!! im a 21 years old guy in a good shape and often times i catch some people checking me out. the problem is when i start talking to a girl i always think she is "the one meant to be". so im too nice too ...