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Dating: Help and advice

Are they too close?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend has a brother (14) and he is totally obsessed with her. He lives in a group home as her parents are alcoholics/drug addicts but she sees him every weekend. He acts really weird around her, he follows anything she says slavishly and he ...

How do you get over a 3 year relationship when your still madly in love with the person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - How do you get over a 3 year relationship when your still madly in love with the person? especially when they were your best friend when you were 12 and they are all you ever had....

Help! How can I let him know that I care so that he will understand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has brought up some complaints a few times over the course of our relationship, and though I feel like I have been making an effort, he still complains about the same things. (I think it is justified, however). I am not demonstrativ...

I've hit a dead end!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I've hit a dead end. After a few attempts of getting guys that I've liked in the past to like me back or to simply ask me out, I've given up! For some reason I attract desperate, needy, sexually frustrated or awkward guys. Guys that I'm just...

my bf has only dated teenagers in the past

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I have been with my wonderful bf for almost a year. He is everything I could ask for in a life partner. I trust him completely, I know he loves me and will never cheat on me. He is kind and respectful, and we have an amazing time together. We are ...

How do I prove that I'm willing to change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - My ex and I were together for almost 3 and a half years. We'd always had problems during the relationship, which lead to us being on and off quite alot. But in the end we always got back together. Back in June, we broke up, and days later he starts ...

She's under my skin!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - I have been dating a lass of 35 for 12 months, i am 47. Sometimes she is all over me, she sends me loads of texts and we speak on the phone for 4 or 5 hours at a time, but other times i feel as welcome as a bad smell. she becomes very angry for no r...

Tired of getting hurt...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - So i have a boyfriend and out of nowhere he says we need a break, im his first girlfriend because he is bi-sexual and only had boyfriends... before we started our relationship i asked if he was ready for a girlfriend he said "yes" but no he is ...

Is a God who does not exist, more important for her than the man she claims to love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, I am 22 and me and my girlfriend are in a relationship for the last 3 years. There are a lot of points that I must highlight before going to the real issue. In the 1st year of our relationship, she was flirty with guys and used to ...

Fear of marriage if she gets too big!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - I would love to marry this woman i've been seeing for over a year now , My deal is I feel like if she gets very large at some point that i may lose my physical attraction for no wanting sex, I know by all standards that is wrong, but that's how i ...

I feel he doesn't bother about me any more the way he used to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - hey people me and my bf , have been together almost a year and it reaally bothers me that he usally puts all his money towards weed he barely buys me surprises , like ... I dunno things that show he care like he used to on our anniveraary he used to ...

Can I ever commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - I was married for 21 years, Been divorced for 9 yrs. now. In and out appox 7 relationships nothing seems to work out a year or less. Did not date, hug, kiss, nothing for two years. Then i met a classmate of mine ,told her i didn't want a ...

Is it wrong to date my former teacher?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I am 19 years old, I graduated high school last year. There has always been a very strong attraction between a teacher at my school (30 years old) and me. My friends would always bug me about how he liked me, but I never told them that I was in ...

If I'm obsessed should I talk to him or leave him alone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid ive just got to High school and im already starstruck by this guy I really like. Im obsessed and I go this phone number every time i walk into the cafeteria I try very hard not to look in his direction. That never works I basicall...

Do you see this relationship going somewhere or am I expecting too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I met a guy 3 months ago just after I moved to a new country. Settling in the new country has been like a rollercoaster ride for me and I 'clinged' to this guy as he was the one of the first few people I got to know when I first arrived. He seemed ...

Have I caused her to lose interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - The girl I have been texting a lot lately has not been texting me back the past 2 or 3 days. This started the day after she told me that things weren't really clear for her without telling me what she really meant by it. I really like her and I have ...

Why is he not calling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - 2 months ago ive met a guy who is 20yrs old and im 22, ive brought him round to my place watch a movie then later on we made out, a few times ater that he came round to mine we had sex then condom burst he said to me that he would pay for the pill ...

Should I hang with a guy friend if I have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Is it okay to hang out with my guy friend who has a crush on me if my boyfriend acts like he doesnt care about me anymore??.my boyfriend started acting shady two weeks ago.like not returning my phone calls and text.or saying hell call me back and ...

My girlfriend won't talk to me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

4 September 2010 (?) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...

I regret it but I'm terrified she finds out I cheated... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - umm well it sounds stupid but like im only 15 but like I've been in a relationship with this girl for nearly a year now and we've been through so much and i dont know what i would do if i lost her but i cheated on her the other night at a party, i ...

He's like one of those strings on your shirt that just won't rip off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. I broke up with him once last October because I couldn't trust him but ended up taking him back by February after I went into a jealous fit when he was with a new girl. Now I realize my mistake. ...

Shy girl needs advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Hello, I have a problem with meeting guys. I'm a 16 year old female from an extremely small town. All of the people my age I know and I am not attracted to them. Everyone who is older is off to college. I am very shy and don't know how to meet ...

He throws ice water on me when I'm asleep!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. we have 2 small kids together... in the past 7 years he has never been a really good boyfriend.. but in the past 2 years he has become very abusive and controlling. every day i get yelled at, threatened, ...

I found out that his friends hate me and talk about me behind my back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Hello fellow cupiders, I am really gutted at the moment. Yesterday I found out that the best friends of my boyfriend for many years, and whom I thought of as my friends as well, absolutely hate me. My boyfriend and I have been together for alm...

Is he just not interested...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - When a man tells you you're a beautiful woman, flirts with you for months, wants to see you, you finally meet up and the attraction is obvious between the two of you, but your divorce isn't final and he says he doesn't want to be the type of guy who ...

Why can't my girlfriend come up a level of class but can always drop a level?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - Why can't my girlfriend come up a level of class but can always drop a level? Last week whilst on holiday at my girlfriend's parents house (in Spain) we met a couple of friends of her parents. Her father used his normal crudeness of introduc...

Online true love is falling for a guy she met at a party...help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - This one is about an online romance... Now before you laugh, it's not something I've ever done before and I had actually met her in person once before. But about a year ago I met this girl online, and over a year we got close and watched each oth...

He turned me down a few years ago when I fancied him. Now I think I love him, could he fancy me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - i once had a crush on a guy, so i asked him out but he rejected me, about 6 months later one of my best friends (also one of his best friends) told me that he had been talking to her about asking me out (this never happend though). now its been 1 ...

B/f broke up with me after 3 months because he didn't think he was feeling what he should be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend online, although we live locally to each other. We only saw each other a couple of evenings a week, but after three months he split up with me, telling me he wasn't feeling what he thought he should be feeling. I th...

Is there anything there with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - Hi, first time poster and I just wanted to ask for some opinions and hints. I met this girl in the summer while we were swimming for a local club and immediatly realized that she was beautiful, but I felt she didn't know it. I quickly began...

Bad(ish) boyfriend suddenly becoming wonderful overnight, turns out he's been watching porn. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Sorry guys, it's another porn story, but please listen to me. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2/3 years now. He was wonderful at the start, but then he seemed to stop caring. He wouldn't do anything nice for me, didn't call me beautiful, di...

I don't think about this boyfriend all the time like I did with my last. Do I love him less?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Well i have a boyfriend. he is my 2nd boyfriend in fact.i We have been a couple for 3 months i am 15 he is 17. . . Now i dont know why but i dont think about him all the time.and i was wondering if thats normal? cause i want to think about him all ...

He's so nice but I don't feel attracted to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Last night i broke up with my boyfriend of eight months. he was like my best friend as well and we got on very well. but in the last few weeks i kept feeling like the spark was gone and that we just acted like friends when we seen each other like ...

Boyfriend's welfare is really concerning me. How can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Im concerned for my boyfriends welfare. He is currently going through a hard time at the moment. He has a very demanding job and also going through a divorce which is never nice for anyone but there is a very young child involved with his wife. ...

IF she likes me then why is she kissing someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - Okay so this girl was going out with one of my friends. But before that we were talking alot and got to know each other and pretty much became besto's. But then my feelings changed a bit cause I started to like her, and around about then she was ...

How can I improve the texture and look of my stretch marks. How do girls feel about them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - hi i have alot of stretch marks! i have em on my stomach, on the sides of my upper body, on my lover back, shoulders and where my arms meet my body, both on front and back. and i am a guy!! they are almost invisible by now but it feels ...

Is my coworker interested in me? I really like him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I like this coworker at work badly...we have each other's num..i got his num through one of his friends with his approval. i am always the one to initiate the texting and he replies..i sent him a text on thursday asking him if he would like to ha...

Why does he keep bring up the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (?) - what does he want?... everytime where together he brings up the past but he doesnt look for me... what i mean is that he doesnt call me or vist me or even txt me (i dont think he doesnt because of his working schedual... because a minute call ...

Can such a hard relationship end for the better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - A couple who is in a relationship for almost 4 years. There were several break ups involved in their relationship but patched back. The girl who is 20, has went through a lot of emotional hurt with him. She has cried before and in the past, th...

Shaved, trimmed or natural?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - What do guys prefer? Shaved, trimmed or natural? ...

Depressing Love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title. Hi, first timer here...ok well, so I've been with this girl for a little over a year now and we're really in love, atleast I know I am and she says she is just the same, only when we take "breaks" they drag on in agony fo...

My father dissaproves of my relationship. I don't know how to deal with it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I've currently been with my long distance boyfriend for over six months. And things have been wonderful between us. It started out as online, until we met in person, and he has even met my family. This is where it gets difficult. My father decided ...

Does she still feel the same about me, or is there another reason she could be angry with me all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - my question is what can i do when my girlfriend seems to always be in a bad mood i have tried to help her with her problems by comfertng her the best way i can but she always seems to find something woring with the way that i confert her and from ...

My ex told my boyfriend I was done with him. Now he won't pick up so I can explain that I'm not.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I dating a guy named A for a month. Two weeks ago, due to depression he stops talking to everyone. Last night my ex had my cell and told A I was done with him....so I tried reaching out to A about that but no answer to the phone. So I left a short ...

Fooling around with my girlfriend was really good until a few days ago. Am I bored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have started dating about 6 months ago. We've been friends for about seven years now and we really care about each other. We can talk about anything and we get along great. We havent had sex yet but we still fool around in bed ...

I'm 14 and I love a 17 year old. Is it wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Hello Im 14 years old I Met this 17 year old and i really like him but he has a girlfriend Hes been with her for nearly 2 years,My mum and dad are really really protective and wont even let me hang aroung with him my dad even rang him! and told...

Am I reading him right? Is he flirting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I am new at all of this since my husband died early this year. I guess I just do not know how to read men and if something is "flirting" or not. So like I said, I have been through quite a rough patch losing my husband unexpectedly in February and ...

I don't like when the guy I have been seeing for 4 months just shows up at my door!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I am dating a guy for the last 4 months. I feel like he is already trying to mark his territory. Gave me two teddy bears with his colone sent.. three pictures of him on a frame. He left his toothbrush with his name labled. Now he is starting to ...

He said he doesn't want to live with me any more! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - me and m boyfriend have been dating for about two years and a half and now we lived togther for a year and a half. Now he doesnt want to live with me what should i do ? I scared that at the end he wont change his mind....

I thought women are fickle, so how come my man is even more fickle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Hi, Over the course of two years, I've seen my boyfriend changed from casual partner to potential life time partner. Here's the things he said to me, about me, about us throughout these two years in timely sequence, and I am pretty much level heade...

Clingy issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a bit confused and frustrated and just all around unsure. I've been dating the most wonderful guy in the world since the beginning of March. We were so in love all the way up to June when school ended and we were separated from each other. ...

Do people usually talk to friends about arguments they have in such great detail?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend, after a (very long) argument that we had last night, told his friends about it (it was a very stupid argument, and it was my fault). Anyway, he refuses to tell me about what he told them, and what they said about it (apparently though, ...

Why do guys not like makeup?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Why do guys not like makeup? Whats wrong with it. i mean if u look like a clown then yes but what if you only wear a lil bit?...

I have a major issue with an adult figure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - I have a major issue with an adult figure. Who doesn't, except mine are my to-be in-laws... I moved in over a year ago with my bf and his parents, and after being here for 10 months things were alright. Then we went to another state and stayed...

Was it just family that got in the way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - We're in high school, and she'd been acting really weird lately, as in not answering my im's and not talking to me at school. I already had a feeling that this was coming, I was prepared for it. But today, after school, she had finally gotten to me ...

He's gone off to Sweden to get this out of his system...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - So the guy I have been dating for a few months has gone off to sweden to meet someone he snogged before we met. he states that it is to get it out is system and we have discussed openly that he is clearly going away for whatever it maybe sex, space ...

Is this boy for real or is he disappointed in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - please people need advice as soon as possible! been texting a boy for two weeks and met up with him last night and it went really well, we went to a beach and got to know each other and he told me i was a really nice girl and that i had a nic...

My family are blatant in their discrimination

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I come from a rather conservative background, where caste based discrimination still exists. Around 7 months ago, I landed myself, my first job. where I met this guy, almost 10 years senior to me and we hit it off instantly. I've been seei...

I love him and I want to be with him forever but I'm scared he doesn't feel the same way anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

4 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years. Lately we've been arguing a lot and I feel like he doesn't love me the way that he did in the beginning of the relationship. He's been avoiding me for 2 weeks straight now. he hasn't called me ...