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writes:He's married now, why wont he leave me alone? ive tried and tried but i give in, i love him sooooooo much and know that he has a wife now, but he keeps coming and coming, i keep letting him, what do i do when the love is so strong for a married man, heeeeeeelp me please.
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reader, Drat001  +, writes (29 December 2010):
If he's married and he keeps coming to you, then he doesn't love you, he just loves having sex with you. Tell him, "If you want to ever be with me again, you will go tell your wife that you're with me and that you're leaving her for me." If he does anything, and I mean ANYTHING but that, then drop him immediately. Do you like being used by a narcisistic male? If not, then why be with one?
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reader, JLAnna  +, writes (4 September 2010):
You obviously have feelings for him, but is he taking advantage of you?
He knows what he is doing by going after you, which is not a good thing.
You need to be strong and refuse him, even though it will hurt you a lot. I don't think you want to be responsible for breaking up a marriage and get blamed for it. He made his choice to marry that woman, so he is off limits. If his intentions are to have some fun on the side, then he is really taking advantage of you. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): Well, he's getting his cake and eating it too, isn't he? You need to see this for what it really is-he's using you. If he really loved and cared about you, guess who would be his wife right now. But you're not, and you have to move on. You need to cut all contact with this jerk (and sorry, but if you're sleeping with him, you're just as guilty as he is) and find someone you can be in a healthy, real relationship with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): If he is married, it's because he wants to be. No one forced him to be in that relationship. He's showing you he is clearly unfaithful and I know you love him, but you can't expect him to be be true to you when he can't even give his wife that respect. He seems like the type of man that's used to getting what he wants. I know it's hard, but find the strength to walk away from the situation. If you don't, you'll end up hurting in the end and nobody should be strung along this way. Good luck and stay strong. You deserve better.
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