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writes:My boyfriend is 20 and i'm 15. He's been asking me to sleep with him (using a condom) each time we fool around, touch and kiss. He's been asking me this every time we meet. I want to have sex with him but am having doubts about it! I LOVE him lol but What should do?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): If he can't respect your wishes and feel that you're worth waiting for, then he's not worth it. Why is he so eager? Can he not control himself? You're right to wait until you're ready. If he can't, then maybe you guys need to go on a break or something.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 If he sleeps with you he could end up in prison. Tell him to wait until you are 16. If he can't wait then tell him to go. Hope this helps
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (3 September 2010):
 Don't sleep with him. It's not legal for a start. Secondly, how long have you been together? He's aware of how much younger and less emotionally mature you are and yet he's still bugging you for illegal sex. You're obviously not comfortable with the idea, you have doubts, so don't. It doesn't matter if you "love" him, you're underage and he's not even waiting until you're ready, it's all about what he wants; your body. Find somene who respects you enough to wait until 1) you're both ready 2) it's legal. The wanting to have sex with him is hormones. Fight it and say no, if he keeps asking you, keep saying no. Eventually he'll get you're not ready, he may even threaten to leave you if you don't have sex with him. Just don't. You're too young and you're not ready. xxx
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