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writes:Hey, I'd love your opinions on whether this sounds like a date to you (I'm out of practice with all this kinda stuff; been single for 9 months after splitting with my bf of 8 years after he cheated): cute, kind, funny guy at work (not in my dept), see him from time to time, been FB messaging/texting about friendly stuff for a while, with him dropping cute compliments from time to time. I get all smiley and flutters in my stomach when I hear from him :) So now he's asked me to meet up with him for a late lunch in a bar tomorrow, just me and him. We've never been out as part of a group before-it's the first time I'll be seeing him outside of work. So what do you think? Do you think he's seeing it as a date? I'm thinking I should treat it as friends getting to know each other better - what do you think? I'd love it to develop into something more. What signals do I need to give off to show him I want to be more than friends? Oh, and what should I wear?? Thanks so much :)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 September 2010):
I think this guy does like you. I'm not sure he sees this as a date, more likely just two friends meeting and getting to know each other more. But if it goes well, he may well suggest a date. So treat it as you were going to, but make sure you flutter those eyelids, laugh at the jokes, lean towards him, smile and all that.
Wear whatever you're comfortable in, whether it's a skirt, a dress, trousers, jeans. Whatever. He will want to see you as you are at your most comfortable.
I'd just go to lunch, be happy, smile and do a little flirting. See how he responds. And at the end, maybe you could say 'I'd love to do this again with you some time'. That'll get his attention.
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