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writes:ive been with my boyfriend four months we spend every day together and have moved in together,i live with him at his mothers house,all is great and im happier than ive ever been.i can see that my boyfriend cares for me and that he loves me.your probably thinking what am i fretting about but last weekend we were cwtched up been on the wine and he said to me that he loves me to bits but hes not in love with me yet which hert me.. i didnt say nothing because i dont understand why he told me this and what it actually means......
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reader, petina1 +, writes (3 September 2010):
 Ive heard that saying so many times it's such a cliche'. A brother can love you I suppose but not be 'in love' with you, like a lover would be. You need to ask him, 'Am I like a sister to you, or am I your lover'. If he can't commit a hundred percent and be in love with you seeing as you are sharing his life and living with him, then maybe you need to ask the question 'What the hell are we doing here'... I'm sorry but I hope this helps. What I'm saying is, you need him to elaborate on what he means really.
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