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Why is it taking him so long to get off?

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Question - (3 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years! When we had sex he would come right away but recently when we have sex he takes a really long time to come or sometimes doesnt even come! Is he cheating, just not attracted to me anymore or what else could it be?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010):

may try somethink new but yeah using a rubber will take him longer but if that not the case go get ur self some sex toys that u can both use expoler with with him even try a strap on u neva know

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A male reader, Oceano United States +, writes (4 September 2010):

Oceano agony auntHave you starting using condoms recently? Guys get off sooner when theres no condom involved.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2010):

Stress, worry, illness, tiredness, a strain, work, age etc etc. There are many reasons. Not one means he's cheating or he's not attracted to you. This is not your fault at all, nor is it his. It's just something that happens to guys sometimes. Make sure he's not so stressed with his life at the moment. Maybe he's just being affected by work or something like that. If it's not that, it may well be that he needs to see a doctor. Be gentle too, because if either of you make a fuss over it, it'll make him more stressed.

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