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Should I avoid the picnic my ex might be attending?

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Question - (3 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2010)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

I've been broken up w/my boyfriend for about a week or so and I've been invited to go to a Labor Day Picnic on Saturday. All the advise I hear is stay away and if he wants to call he will, but should I attend a party that he MIGHT be at? He has his young daughter's B'day party, so he might not be there. My girlfriends want me to go and they insist. I want to work things out w/him, but everybody says give him time.

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A female reader, CREATIVE PRINCESS Kenya +, writes (3 September 2010):

You should avoid your ex at all costs before he thinks you are desperate and stalking him.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (3 September 2010):

Honeypie agony auntI agree with Cindy. Go, have fun. If he shows up be polite but keep your distance. If it gets too much head home..

WHY should you sit at home, because he "might" be some place?

Live you life!

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (3 September 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt I'd go. Do not put your life on hold for this man ( or any man ) - just live normally, and as pleasantly as possible, whether you are single or not.

So, as you should not visit places on purpose just because he might be there ( his favourite bars and restaurants, the shops in his neighborhood...) , you should not even avoid like the plague places that you enjoy, just because he might be there.

YOU are the center of your life. Not him.

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