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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Dear Aunts and Uncles,I'm so confused and hope you can "help". My man, lets say is a contractor for a city agency who he is required to visit 1-2 times daily to retrieve paperwork. (He does have guy friends who work there) Well, in the last few months he has been visiting 4-5 times per day for no really good reason and has become distracted in our marriage. I have asked him many times (like he would really tell me huh) if there is anything going on that he needs to get off his chest and if he's happy with our marriage. He gets all huffy and says it's all fine and why do I think it's not. I did tell him that it seems he spends a lot more times away from work than at work, holds onto his cell like it's CIA important and I know he lied to me about 2 texts he received recently "late" at night. Said they can from a guy friend but I saw the number and it was not the friends, then the next day those 2 texts were erased!!!!!!!Am I being too crazy about this or do you think I have a reason to wonder? Your help is appreciated and I'd like to hear from the uncles to get a man's view. Is it nothing and he's just hanging with the guys ya think!Thank you in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDenim, thank you for your post. I would love to keep my eyes open but I can't get close to that place even to spy w/out being seen. I thought about a PI but they are costly and I could be wrong all together. I just want to know for sure & it's driving me crazy. Any suggestions if I may ask. Thank you.
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reader, DenimandLace +, writes (3 September 2010):
 Honey, I am not a man, but these things are really suspicious. He is in the beginning stages of at least an emotional affair, if not the real thing
When a person changes the way the have always acted and become really defensive, and secretive, there is always a reason. It involves finances, work stress, or an affair usually.
I would keep my eyes and ears open, because something is up with him. Denim
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