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writes:Me and my boyfriend were watching tv, and there was a shot of a girl with a big butt bending over. And he makes the comment "she ain't got any kind of panties on". Now in the past I have gotten upset at him oogling over YouTube videos of girls shaking their asses, and other degrading things I won't approve of in this relationship! So what should I do, tell him that comments like that aren't going to cut it? No rude comments. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): Just tell him to shut up and keep it to himself or for around his mates because as his gf you don't want to hear it.
Or the next best thing is start making comments about guys on the tv, he'll either not notice and just get on with things or he'll feel as you feel when he's the one making comments.
But don't let it get to you too much, at least he doesn;t hide his thoughts and is comfortable with your relationship to say it around you x
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (7 November 2010):
 I agree I don't think what he said was degrading either, he was just making a mere observation. There's nothing to talk about. If you really think there is a problem, just tell him to keep his comments and observations to himself.
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reader, doublejack +, writes (7 November 2010):
I'm sorry, but I don't see anything wrong with your boyfriend's comment. You are honestly jealous of a girl on TV, or upset that he noticed she wasn't wearing panties? Those aren't rude behaviors in my opinion. I don't think any real guys exist who don't think like that or say such things once in a while.
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