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My boyfriend is verbally controlling and abusive. Should I stay or leave?

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Question - (7 November 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *haniyahB writes:

my boyfriend is 19....4 years older than me. hes such a gentleman bt hes verbally controlling and abusive. weve been engaged for 4 months now and were planning a family. i dnt know if i should stay or go

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010):

No gentlemen here sweetie. This is a toxic relationship and you risk a great great deal of harm by staying in it and being so young why take such a risk? Id reconsider the relationship def. Good luck.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010):

Was he that way from the beginning? How do you treat him?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010):

he is the wrong kind of guy if he is verbaly abusive you should get yourself out of that situation quickly

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010):

You should go. It will only get worse. before you know it, he won't let you go out with friends or do anything exciting. He will control you until you will not even enjoy life. Your relationship with him is young and it will only get worse if you stay. Abuse is abuse... it's never okay.

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (7 November 2010):

Denise32 agony auntHoney, he's no gentleman! Getting involved with someone who shows this kind of disrespect by verbally abusing you and telling you what to do and what not to do (controlling) is a huge mistake. If you hang on to him your life will be miserable and you'll come to regret it bitterly.

What you need to do is break off your engagement right now and let him know you do not want to see him again. Not now, not ever.

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