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writes:I'm wondering why guys just sometimes seem to lose interest for no apparent reason? I have been out on four dates with a guy I rally liked and everything seemed perfect. He was making lots of effort by taking me out to dinner and cooking for me. We went for a romantic walk on the beach. We laughed LOTS and I thought we had a really good connection. Then NOTHING. He has completely backed off with no explanation and I haven't heard from him in nearly two weeks. We hadn't slept together so I know it isn't because he'd got what he wanted so I really can't figure out why he seems to no longer be interested in seeing me again. Any insight would be much appreciated! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answers.
It is possible that he only saw me as a friend I suppose although none of my other male friends kiss me like that. But if that is the case I can't think of why he wouldn't still want to continue spending time with me if he enjoyed it even as only friends. I live in a small village and I have seen him out twice. It's such an awkward situation as it feels as though the situation has just been left hanging. I would like to take the advice to call HIM but I am too scared he will reject me. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010):
Are you absolutely sure they were 'dates'?Are you sure he doesn't just see you as friend material?
You haven't given much information on how you got to this stage so it's hard to advise really.
Maybe he really likes your company but does not see you as a romantic interest, I know it hurts but this is all I can come up with, with such little info.
It seems a bit unfair and sudden to just not contact you at all, have you tried to talk to him, tried to text or call him for an explanation?
I would give it a few more days and if no contact then assume he has decided you are not the one for him.
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