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writes:How do I know if I am in love with my gf of two years and it didnt hit me until we broke up? We have been dating off and on for two years and when she broke up with me the first time it didnt seem to bother me and i wanted to date others thinking that life was gonna greener on the other side. I told her to date other people even though she professed her love for me. When I decided that i wanted to be with her again i gave everything I thought she wanted then 3 weeks later she broke it off with me. I am confused if I am truly in love with her or just feeling rejected? Cuz my heart is broken and also how can I get her back?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 Why would you want her back?...because you love her?, would you hurt her and break up with her again?...or can you not live without you because she is your best friend lover and soul mate? Have you considered how she feels?, she loved you and you dumped her because you thought life was going to be sweeter elsewhere?...
She broke off with you because, my friend, she no longer trusts you. By messing her around and acting confused over things you have destroyed the very thing that people need to have a happy life together.
I think trust is a good place to start, if you feel you might change your mind down the road then I would let her go. If you know beyond anything that it is only her you ever want to be with, then you need to begin building trust again (and only your heart and soul will tell you how to do that). Listen to your gut!
Good luck.
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reader, sneha_1492  +, writes (7 November 2010):
You should read this to know if you're in love sweety http://www.esquire.com/the-side/feature/women-advice/how-do-i-know-if-im-in-love.
And regarding getting her back, you should tell her how you feel ! Dont wait for anything or anyone. If you reslly want her and if she's worth it I've just three words for you - GO FOR IT !!!!! Don't hesitate even for a minute. I don't know if she loves you back or what but if you think it's worth a chance, might as well listen to your heart.
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