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I don't know how to get a boyfriend!

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Question - (7 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hello i am a 15 year old sophmore. the last time i had a boyfriend was in 7th grade. i feel so left out all my friends have had their first kiss had a ton a boyfriends while im just alone and dont have anyone special. and i am starting to lose hope that i will be like the movie never been kissed or like the 40 yr old vergin. and while i know thats unlikley i cant help but wonder if that will happen to me.

whenever i think i found a guy and start hoping its gonna work out and that he will ask me out something chnges and we either end up not talking or he starts dating another one of my friends. my friends tell me that the reason i dont get a boyfriend is beause im really shy. well thats true i am really shy but i dont know how not to be. i also dont have a lot of guy friends. now that i am older and i am more comfortable at school i find myself talking to alot more guys. but while im looking for friendship im looking more for a relationship. the problem id i dont know how to get one!

does anyone have any suggestions on how i cab get a boyfriend and help me feel more confident??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011):

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thanks for the answers they were helpful i still dont have a boyfriend but i think the reason why i dont is because in too shy to say anything to the guys that im interested in. any suggestions on how i can help get less shy?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010):

Its okay young one :)...being shy is very normal and in all honesty im a shy guy too and kinda outgoing and was popular in high school and instead of going after the high profile girls, i went after a shy one that was under everyones radar and dated her for 5.5 years. Believe me, a guy will notice you. Maintain who you are and forget about movies and your friends. The pressure can be big doll I understand that. I'll tell you now to not let such things influence you as there is no better indication to who a person actually is when they fight thru such adversity. Head up. Its too pretty to be staring at the ground anyway i bet :). My best to you.

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A female reader, lamee South Africa +, writes (7 November 2010):

lamee agony auntsweety u r so young ,,one day u'll find ur special one u dont knu when ,, trust me u wont be 40 years old vergin i knu its hard to see all ur freinds talking bout it and stuff like that ,, but don't rush things don't lose hope ur just 15 ,,

and u should be confident ,, look at what god give am sure ur pretty cute girl,,and there is something i alwys say to my self,,(dont wait for guys love just love ur self and thy well love u back )good luck

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