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writes:I don't get him at all! I've been talking to this guys for over a year now. Sometimes we'd be on and off because I wanted to get rid of him but it looks that won't happen anytime soon. So I text'd him last night actually, just to see what was up. Seems like he was kinda busy so he text'd me back today. It was a vey short convo-due to his "smart comment". I just asked him if he had forgotten about me and he replies "no". So I said why not? and he says because we talk everyday (that is a lie!) I said no..you stop texting. He asks "how", and I said idk, you just stopped. And then he said Well I don't recall that but ok- that was the smart comment that made me not want to reply. Its just upseting. Like you say all these things about loving and caring about me, and yet you don't show it..not even a little bit. I feel like me being away is changing things between us. Seems like he's too busy to even send me a text, when we use to text literally almost everyday. Its like he's reminising on the past, while I'm trying to figure out if we'll even have a future. It just irritates me. So i"ve decided when I return home from my trip only then will I figure out what's really going on between us. Does that seem like such a bad decision? I love him and all...but we can't stay stuck at the same place for years. Either we become official or become friends (friends that don't have sex) So is that a bad idea..any suggestion guys?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 July 2010):
This will never go any further than it is now. He's not interested in a relationship I'm afraid. I'd let him go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): When I read your whole story, what I basically hear is this:
"I've been giving him the milk for free and I'm tired of this. Why can't I get him to buy the cow?"
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (30 July 2010):
 I think it's probably time you gave up on this guy. He's had a year, he hasn't made the moves you want, he's simply not interested in the way you'd like. It's a shame but some people just don't do us the courtesy of falling in love with us, no matter how much we want it! It stinks, it's lousy, it hurts, but there's no getting around it: love is not fair.
I personally would simply stop seeing him. He's really more interested in the B part of your relationship and less in the F part... that being the FWB relationship you have going.
Good luck.
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