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When are you supposed to know if the relationship is just physical or there is potential for more?

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Question - (30 July 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so I started casually dating this turkish guy 9 months ago after initially meeting in a nightclub. the first 2-3 months were great, we would speak daily and see each other either every week or every 2 weeks. and i must admit i was extremely happy and infatuated. He kept telling me that a relationship at that time would be an option but difficult because of the long distance. after the 3rd or 4th date which was a month after meeting, we started having sex, then i had to go away to school in England for 3 months and returned this past March of 2010. Ever since I have returned we do not speak as much or ever and I only see him once every 3-4 weeks, if that and we mainly have sex. So my question: is there any chance of there being a serious relationship or is it just physical? He asked me if I had been seeing other people and i never really answered. I know we both have had pasts of having frequent "friends with benefits" type relationships but im looking for something serious and have too many emotions invested to let go of this guy automatically.

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A female reader, Janice25 Aruba +, writes (30 July 2010):

Janice25 agony auntIt is just physical

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010):

Yea that's what I suspected and what my instincts tell me..thanks!

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A female reader, Jessica Wheate United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2010):

^^ Well Said Babeee xx! :)

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (30 July 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntSounds like just sex.

If he's good (and though I know generalizations are stupid, he should be if he's a Turk) then maybe you should be happy with what you've got?

If it's love you're looking for, then you may be barking up the wrong tree.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (30 July 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntSounds like just sex.

If he's good (and though I know generalizations are stupid, he should be if he's a Turk) then maybe you should be happy with what you've got?

If it's love you're looking for, then you may be barking up the wrong tree.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2010):

This is just sex and nothing more. That's it. If there was anything else, he would have made more of an effort. He hasn't. This is sex, and if you're looking for more, it's best you move on.

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